Parents know that my brother is a scumbag, does not like to study, cheats in exams, and is dirty, but they still let him practice rugby, and they can see that he is doing well in sports. His parents didn't force him to stubbornly succumb to his studies, or force him to be a well-behaved kid. Because straw bales also have their way. When it is time to step into society, society will not punish everyone who does wrong, nor will it reward every good person with noble character. There are times when you get away with it, and there are days when you must be punished. This is the mechanism of society. Parents tell my brother the correct concept, but he will not go and cannot control his behavior, the road he wants to go. Under such a background, my brother can only become a worthless scumbag, but not a bad person.
And sister Missy is an angel just like her mother said, not that she is perfect, innocent and kind, but precisely because she has a high emotional intelligence and a big heart, she understands the rules of society and will fight for her own interests. Under such circumstances, you may gain more than people at the same level, and you will not suffer. So the parents don't worry about her. She may be mediocre in study, but she is mature and flexible in dealing with others, just like she pulled the barb for Sheldon in the last episode, remembering the process of her mother's work, listening to Sheldon's advice, witty thinking of the tweezers in the toy bag, acting calm and logical. It can be seen that the parents know their daughter well, although they have not spent much time together. Missy should be the kind of ordinary person who lived a particularly good life.
What I find amazing about parents treating Sheldon is that they will listen to their child's opinions, allow him to try, tolerate him and support him, even if they are not optimistic or satisfied. It's more straightforward with other kids. I think that on the one hand, it is because Sheldon has a more rational mind. He does things logically before and after. His ideas should be respected. On the other hand, they feel more distressed about this special child. Be more forgiving of him. For example, accompany Sheldon to Houston to submit a new rocket proposal. For example, Sheldon was afraid that bacteria and viruses had to live in the garage. Such as when considering going to a boarding private school. The point is, they were there every time Sheldon needed his parents. Although Sheldon is a weirdo in terms of behavior like this, he has a healthy personality, has love in his heart, and can't do bad things.
The three children have all three kinds of life, straw bag, ordinary people, weirdo, who is not?
There is a way of communication in the play that impressed me. When Sheldon suddenly broke out and left the guests to hide in the room, his mother didn't blame him, but asked:
- How are you?
- Do you want to chat?
- Do you need me to stay with you?
I think this communication style is something every parent should learn. Very simple content, but it can be seen that the respect for children as equal human beings can be seen.
Another point is a harmonious family atmosphere, with parents who love and understand each other. This is awesome. For example, my father is not religious but will accompany my mother to church. When there is a problem, express it, and reconcile when it is time to reconcile. Really envious. Children are at least healthy.
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