I gave the movie "Dark Side" a 4, mainly for idea and insight. In the promotion of the movie, I think there are some places that are too coincidental. For example, before Beren entered the secret room, he forgot the key, and the plot was driven by accidents. Although it is understandable, it is not worthy of praise. The horror of the movie is that everyone is not a complete bad person, standing in their respective positions, you can understand why they would do this or that, "The hero and heroine are just like every ordinary person of us. The same" = "Driven by human nature, each of us may do the same thing", which is where the horror of this movie is.
Why not test humanity? Because human nature cannot stand the test. The idiot who hates the woman will ask again, is there really no human nature that can stand the test? Really do not have. There is no need to go to great lengths to test others. You are a human being, just push yourself and others, and ask yourself how much test you can withstand, whether it is just that the test is not big enough.
But human nature is cheap, even if we know that human nature can't stand the test, we can't help but want to test it occasionally. Then at least before the test, it is best to ask yourself two questions: What are the characteristics of human nature? Assuming that the other party has withstood the test or not, what will your relationship do next?
- Human beings are selfish, like to be profitable, and at worst, they want to exchange equally. We all have scales in our hearts, and we are unlikely to go very far with people who we feel are unsuitable. Don’t be greedy. When you get something beyond your own conditions, ask yourself how confident you are.
- Human nature only wants to get what we want at the least price. What is easily available and infinite is not treasured.
- Human nature also has its shining points, and it can also be inspired by the good side. But accusing, blaming, demanding, and doubting will not make the other party change in the direction you want, only good communication, tolerance, encouragement, and trust can.
- Human nature seeks advantages and avoids disadvantages. If you are not taught that the bottom line is here, if you are not told what you will lose if you break the bottom line, or if the cost of breaking the bottom line is acceptable, you will definitely trample on the bottom line.
Finally, I want to say that grasping and managing happiness is a kind of ability, and the movie has demonstrated the method of unhappiness:
- Looking forward to unequal love, believing in the fairy tale of the prince and Cinderella
- Constantly testing, emotional internal friction, being influenced by the other party, mood ups and downs
- Threats to break up, and the first to surrender
- Stop progressing, give up maintaining your pride
- Beautify the other party, irrationally observe the other party's character
- no effective restraint
To be happy, girls learn as soon as possible:
- Choose equal, well-matched love
- Communicate correctly, express your needs, don’t get emotional, stay happy
- It is not easy to make a decision to break up. If the decision is made, even if it is uncomfortable, it will be executed through gritted teeth.
- enrich yourself, enrich yourself
- Objectively observe character and have its own standards and requirements
- Smartly give the other party constraints (control money and time), and set the bottom line at the critical moment
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