so-called parent-child

Chelsea 2022-04-19 09:02:32

Seeing the scene where the rain turned her back to her mother and walked towards the forest after the storm, I seemed to hear the words written by Long Yingtai: The so-called parent-child relationship only means that the fate between you and him is that you will keep watching in this life and this life. His back figure drifted away. Moreover, he silently told you with his back that you don't have to chase.

Rather than saying, "The mother in the world is great," I would rather say that Hua, this woman, is great. Saying this may spoil the atmosphere, but after all, there are mothers like in "Walk in the White Night", and there are mothers like Kusohira's mother.

Except for the night when the werewolf died and the stormy night, most of the time in the movie is bright and lively, and the music is sometimes soft, sometimes playful and sometimes exciting, giving the movie a warm and brisk feeling. But I see a sore nose from time to time. In my opinion, everything that Hua faces is a desperate situation that is enough to crush people. At a similar age, but if you put me in her position, I will definitely not be able to. Do as well as she does.

When I first learned that my lover was a werewolf, I was shocked enough. If it were me, maybe it would be completely different from here, considering all the factors, including the poor life, the possible opposition from parents and friends, and the hidden life of this matter. The pressure of going down and the troubles that may come in the future, considering all of this, I still feel that if I love this person, I will still treat this person as my life partner, respect him, trust him and continue to spend this life with this person . But if it's me, I won't get married and won't raise children. This has nothing to do with werewolves. It's just that I don't want to get married or plan to meet that person or not in my future life. have children. Because I don't like the form of marriage, and I don't really want to live for others. Besides, I don't think I can be responsible for another life.

Speaking of which, the heroine Hua chose to give birth to a werewolf's child. I think it is necessary to use all the strength and courage of the whole body to consider the problems they may have in their future growth and life, which is really dark. I don't know if the heroine is too strong and optimistic, feeling that she can overcome any difficulties with her husband, or she is too natural and straightforward, thinking about nothing but just wanting to be with this person and saying "Welcome back" to him , and raised a pair of lovely children with him. Probably both.

When the werewolf died, standing in the position of the flower, I almost felt that the sky was falling and it would crush people to death. At that time, she had no job, no one could ask for help, and no one even knew her grief, some Just two little wolf cubs under three years old. It's like the sky is falling down, and I don't give you a breath at all to lie on the bed and cry for three days and three nights. No matter how much it hurts, you can only support yourself, because you know that no matter how much pain you feel, you can't let it go. It crushed the two children under its own feet.

When the hero and heroine quarreled in "Love Before Midnight", the heroine said something that left a deep impression on me. It was probably to say that when the heroine went abroad to sell books, the heroine faced the two at a loss for countless times. Crying daughter, although people think that women are born with this "maternal instinct" like chimpanzees, but in fact, women will be at a loss when facing a newborn child, just like a flower with two children at the same time. While reading various books and learning various knowledge, learning to raise these two children is the same.

In this quarrel, the female protagonist Celine choked and said that when the male protagonist Jesse was not at home, whenever the two children began to cry at night, the only way to calm them down was to drag the cumbersome double stroller alone. Go downstairs, then push them for hours and hours walking alone down the street at midnight, and almost get robbed once. So after seeing Huabei complaining about the neighbors, in the middle of the night, leading the snow, hugging the rain and coaxing him to sleep on the street, hearing the drunken passers-by's voice and leading the child home like a frightened bird, I can't stop crying. live off. Because she is also a woman, she knows that she is at a loss and knows her helplessness and fear.

Not to mention moving to an old forest in the deep mountains for the sake of two children, and because of this decision, I had to make myself proficient in eighteen martial arts, from repairing floors and roofs to digging soil and planting crops. I have seen this, two big men squatted on the room from morning to sunset, with a few big buckets of materials, it took me three days to make, and I felt uncomfortable after finishing it, and lay on the bed for two days. Slow down. This alone is enough. There are still three meals a day to do. During the day, the two children have to be distracted and run far away. Will they be injured? Calculating how much savings you have left, worrying about your livelihood tomorrow, studying and studying how to farm the land, and the most terrifying thing is that you have to face all this alone with a smile. I don't know how this kind of power erupted from the body of that skinny little woman.

I think people who choose to have children and raise them seriously are amazing people. Although I have no intention of becoming such a person, if I meet such a person in my future life, I think I will not be stingy. People like Grandpa Nirazaki.

Finally, a song "Guanbai Manifesto" by Masashi Sada, whom I liked from the beginning, is from the perspective of a husband writing to his wife who is about to get married. There is a lyric in it. Now it seems to be the most real and moving confession between husband and wife: no You die before me, even if it's only for a day, you can't die before me.

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Wolf Children quotes

  • [after Revealing to Hana that he is a Werewolf]

    Wolf Man: Were you surprised?

    [She nods]

    Wolf Man: Do you want to break up?

    [Hana shakes her head]

    Wolf Man: But you're trembling, are you scared?

    Hana: No.

    [pause]

    Hana: Because you're you.

  • [to The Wolf Man]

    Hana: I'll welcome you back home.