The father showed the anger that a normal person should have: ignorance of his daughter's growth in sex education, anger at his daughter's failure to protect her when she was sexually assaulted, and anger at her daughter's treatment of sexual assault as true love, but, Overall, it really boils down to self-centred anger - I'm hurt, I don't understand... The mother is more calm, she keeps exhorting her husband to put his daughter first and be there for her.
The director used a volleyball game to quickly intensify the contradiction, and then it also dissolved quickly. The daughter nearly committed suicide, which made the father's self-centered anger seem small, and the father was able to stand up, jump out of his own little world, and look outside, he saw the pain of his daughter, and he was able to see the whole event from a higher position. When it accepted the fait accompli, he accepted his daughter and himself.
There are things in life that people can easily get angry with, and the reason for the anger is often self-centered anger like this: I love you so much, how did you treat me like this; I changed, why are you still Treat me like that; how on earth did you hook up with others and keep asking for details... In the process, people magnify their anger and hurt, I am the saddest person in the world, and others are always To say something to satisfy their desire to express themselves, people always replace the core question: You love her like this, but she treats you like that. Is there any ambiguity in the way you express your love? The way of love should be the central issue; you have changed, she still treats you like that, whether there is still love between you and her, can you go back to the past, or, both of you accept the present and live with the present. The state starts over again, and how to locate the state of love should be the central issue; what people need to do is to reflect carefully and solve it, not to be angry. Although sometimes anger cannot control itself, it must not be old. It is to look inwards, look outwards, stand a little higher, perhaps, be closer to yourself.
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