woman's struggle, woman's fragments

Bernhard 2022-04-24 07:01:16

Piecies of a woman, now slowly realizing the meaning of the title, seems to describe the process of how a woman is torn to pieces in the struggle for life and how to put it back together.

Choosing to give birth at home is itself a kind of resistance of the heroine to the mother, and the death of the child also indicates the failure of the resistance of this parent-child relationship. Judging from the ending, in the last two shots, one finally saw the heroine holding her mother who was suspected of having Alzheimer's in relief, and at this time she became the heroine and told her mother: "This is what you ordered, you just like xxx". When the mother is no longer a mother, the daughter is finally liberated from the role of the daughter, and finally reconciled with the mother. At this point, it seems that the heroine finally won the revolution, but then the last scene is when the daughter Lucy asks the heroine what to eat for dinner. Yes. . In fact, it is still the heroine who has the final say. In other words, if I say what you like/what you should eat, you should xxx. The power relationship of the older generation has been reversed (the apple turns black), not the victory of the struggle, but the aging of the people In the process, due to the natural inversion of the strength and weakness of the physiological force, the next generation seems to continue. But I prefer to interpret this clip as that the heroine is not forcing it on the next generation. After the daughter said "then I'm not hungry", there will be a follow-up. The follow-up is that the heroine can wake up through the growth of this incident, and can gradually understand At the time in court, there was no way of knowing why this happened, knowing that I should respect my daughter's choice and stop making my own wine as the reason for this.

Interpreting it from the perspective of feminist generational domination, I would like to introduce what Chizuruko Ueno said in patriarchy and capitalism: "Women are forced to bear unfair costs in this, and under intergenerational domination, women And trying to become an authoritarian exploiter. It's a tragic cycle where the oppressed under the patriarchy oppress the more oppressed. Women and children are not just co-victims under the patriarchy, they can be under the patriarchy From the victim party to the direct perpetrator of the proxy war.”

In fact, both men and women are under the pressure of being pointed out, but the way they face it is different. Men's advantages in physical strength and social status make their resistance more powerful and more justified, while women often need to put in more effort when they want to be loyal to themselves, to control their own destiny, and their own bodies. Everyone agrees that you have the right to choose xxxx, but then you should always xxxx, just like the mother inside never asks Martha how she wants to face or deal with the death of her child, but directly press her own Arrange her will and reason with her all day long. On the surface, it gives freedom and rights to the other party, but in essence it is still trying to manipulate. And many women finally couldn't bear it under this kind of environment and were "assimilated", accepting the sanctions of others "half-handedly", just like agreeing to the sex imposed by Sean on the spot.

We people always like to find out the causal relationship, we love attribution, and it doesn’t matter whether the attribution is correct or not. Anyway, it seems that we need to find the source of the matter to be at ease, but Martha knows that blaming the midwives can’t solve the problem, and it can’t change the tragedy, not to mention the midwives. Not the cause of the error. Maybe it’s unfair to be born to fight for the right to live, but it can’t be a fight for the sake of a fight. Martha’s firm refusal to go to the hospital to give birth is hard to say that it’s not a fight for the sake of fighting, including choosing Sean as her partner. I was wondering why the death of the child caused the separation between the two. Originally, this pain was a common one. It was the difficulty that the husband and wife faced together, which could bind the hearts of the two even tighter, but it turned out that Martha was very cold to Sean. , it was her isolated battle, she did not regard him as a comrade-in-arms or an ally, and there was no communication during the process. The reason may be that Sean was just a tool for Martha to resist her mother. When Martha regarded the death of the child as a tool When she had a rebellious miscarriage, she couldn't see Sean as someone who could empathize and share her pain, and she seemed extra isolated from society. Martha forgot that struggle was a means, not an end. Martha can't escape the responsibility herself, and it is only herself who wants to save herself from the haze.

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  • Shana 2022-03-28 09:01:07

    Martha: This woman, did not intentionally hurt my daughter. That night, she just wanted to deliver a healthy baby. I don't think this is your fault. I don't think it's her fault. I want to thank you. There may be a reason for this to happen, but it's not in this room. If I stand here asking for compensation or for money, then I am, I am saying that what I lost can be compensated, but it cannot be compensated. I can't bring her back to life. No money, sentence, or criminal law can bring her back to life. How can I inflict this pain on other people? Others already suffering? I know she wouldn't want me to do that. Not at all. The brief moment my daughter came into this world was not for me to do that. I'm done, thank you. ——Shang’s good family background and independent thinking allow her to make such choices and express these remarks, while in my real life, I have been exposed to more situations, and I have tried my best, opportunistically, and even framed for more benefits. , blaming others, etc.

  • Sonia 2022-03-19 09:01:06

    The first part, almost half an hour of the plot, has already caught people to death. The sense of presence and realism is really shocking, seeing people almost suffocated. And then a little bit of farewell and reconciliation. The film is quite straightforward, especially the meaning of Apple. It's mainly the director scheduling and the actors' performances. They are indeed very powerful, and they also increase the emotional appeal of the film. In addition, seeing Savedi by accident was a small surprise.

Pieces of a Woman quotes

  • Elizabeth: And I'm ashamed of me. That I wasn't a good enough mother to teach you how to stand up and speak for yourself, for God's sakes. And to deal with this. Like my mother taught me. After my father went into the ghetto, my mother found a shack, an empty shack, that she went into and gave birth to me. Without any help at all. She stashed me under the floorboards when she had to go out and steal food. So she could make milk enough to keep me alive, but just alive. Not strong enough to cry, or we'd be caught. When she finally got me to a doctor, he advised her to just let me go. That I wasn't... I wasn't strong enough to survive. But when she absolutely insisted, he picked me up by my feet and held me up like a chicken and said, "If she tries to lift her head, then there's hope." And you know what I did, Martha? I lifted my head. That's what I'm asking you to do now. Lift your head and fight for yourself, for God's sakes! Go out there and face that woman.

  • Lane: Yes, how did you feel holding your baby you had just given birth to?

    Martha: She smelled like an apple.