The father did not accompany the child for 12 years, and Ivan and Andre developed a sense of estrangement towards his father. The rebellious Ivan suspected that the father in the film was not his biological father, and even had feelings for him during the journey to the sea. The horrific thought that a strange man who he suspected was not his family would kill them. In the film, no matter whether it is eating, watching his son being bullied, or helping to push the car up the mud puddle in the rainstorm, etc. During the time between father and son, the father always teaches the children some things. How to deal with things and pass on the correct values, but never more clearly and directly let the child know his starting point. In the film, the father uses the correct method, but he uses a very hard and powerful tone to instruct Ivan and Andre. The naturally rebellious Ivan is the more compulsive instructing the "father". More negative resistance developed. This reflects the wrong way of education that most parents in China treat their children in our lives. The more docile the children are, the more cowardly they will become in the future, and they will have a sense of fear of bullying under hegemonism. Relationships with children will go to extremes of division. But the father in the film is not so extreme. Facing the difficult Ivan, he always resolves it in a gentle way. Ivan is not so stubborn. In the plot, he cried in the car and asked him why he was spending time trying to get the two of them to get along. At this time, he knew that the father in front of him was actually with kindness. Try to get along with them. Ivan is also trying to learn to get along, but he can't open the estrangement and concerns in his heart. At the end of the film, the plot of Ivan and Andre returning to sea late pushed the incident to a climax. The father finally couldn't contain his worries and reprimanded Andre very angrily, and slapped him hard. Andrei was also infused with Ivan's thoughts that this man who was not his father always wanted to kill them, and said words like "please kill me", which further pushed the plot to a climax. Ivan finally couldn't restrain his negative emotions and ran to the heights of the lighthouse. His father chased him all the way, but he never said what he wanted to express his worries and love for them! Father is trying to save Ivan but accidentally falls from the height of the lighthouse and dies! All this turned the whole incident into an irreversible situation. The movie saw this and felt that it was all tragic. In the end, the two brothers dragged their father onto the boat to prepare for their return. There are a lot of details here, the two brothers couldn't drag their father, chopped branches to bring their father on board, launched the boat, etc. These things were done by their father on the journey that took them to sea! So the film finally introduces these behaviors to tell us from the side what our parents have done to us in the past. Using their rights as adults to educate us is the wrong way, but they're right on most levels. Andrei and Ivan finally watched the helplessness of their father sinking to the bottom of the sea with the boat, and finally couldn't help shouting "Dad" that they had always wanted to identify with. In the future, children will gradually understand the love and ways their parents placed on them.
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