What kind of fatherly love should a boy receive

Aron 2022-12-07 21:26:11

After watching "Return", I am shocked by the excellent education of boys in Russia!

This is a classic film about boys' education. The divorced wife, realizing that the two sons had long been missing the father's teaching, called back the child's father to fulfill his father's duties. This was explained during the trip.

"You don't care about us, why are you coming back to see us?"

"It was your mother who let me spend some time with you."

After the father came back, he seldom laughed, and always demanded his two sons with manly standards. Teach them: drink alcohol, deal with criminals on their own, keep time, accept punishment, etc. I think this camping will definitely be a milestone in the maturity of Andrea and Ivan.

We know that spoiling is harmful. As a father, you should dare to let go and let your children go through the training. But in real life, especially in today's low birthrate, how many Chinese fathers can do this in the face of many obstacles?

Look at our primary and secondary school students: they are busy doing their homework all day, watching TV and playing games in their spare time. Boys are just as weak as girls. There are many reasons for this: parents dote on their children too much, they are seriously dereliction of duty in physical education classes, schools and teachers are unwilling to take responsibility, they are cautious about children's exercise, they dare not relax a little, they are afraid of running, they are afraid of being hungry, and they are afraid of going hungry. I can't take responsibility for this, it's really a tragedy for society and education!

A child without a father's guidance grows up with all kinds of problems. I read a story about a foreign company owner's criteria for employing people: he must respect his father's authority. I would not hire a young man who rebelled against his father's authority. Ivan in the film is obviously not mature enough.

Some sociologists believe that boys spend 80% of their time with their mothers. When they grow up, these children may not know how to be men. Boys don't know how to be men, and they will become more and more like little ones. child. Boys are not like boys cause a lot of problems: being bullied by their peers, being sissy, being gay, etc.

It can be seen how important father's education is to the growth of boys!

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The Return quotes

  • [first lines]

    [on-screen caption: Sunday]

    [boy falls in the water, then floats up]

    Zavodila: Jump as we agreed! Who climbs down the ladder is a cowardly wanker.

    [swims to the shore]

    Boy on Tower: Go on, Vityok. You're next.

  • [last lines]

    Ivan: Look...

    [shows a photo to Andrey]

    Andrey: Hide it.

    [Ivan puts the photo back]

    Ivan: Andrey, my feet are wet.

    Andrey: Take your shoes off.