There are two places that impress me:
First, Mr.clark was discovered by his wife to participate in a dance competition. The wife mistook him for an affair, and the two sides were arguing in the parking lot. Mr.clark said he was ashamed, his wife questioned him ashamed for what? Clark hesitated for a while and said: ashamed for to be happier. The wife stayed on the spot.
Second, after Clark gave up dancing, the husband and wife had a cold war. Clark entered the room and said something to his wife. The original is transcribed below: the one thing i am proudest of in my whole life is that you are happy with me, if i couldnt tell you that i was unhappy sometimes it was beacause i didnt want to risk hurting the one person i treasure most. says Finished turning around and leaving.
What is the purpose of marriage? The wife told the private detective she hired that the purpose of marriage is to have a witness in her life and witness everything about herself, good and bad. Perhaps this is another explanation for marrying to avoid loneliness. Although this is understandable, because deep in human nature is fear of loneliness.
But a happy marriage, and perhaps the purpose of life, is all about happiness. In marriage and in life, there must be happiness. A happy life, a happy marriage, is full of vitality. Marriage is not a simple repetition of days, not a partner, but to discover and enjoy happiness together. And this must require both parties in the marriage to be independent individuals who can discover and enjoy happiness.
Pin your happiness on the other person, and one day you will be overwhelmed or bored and leave.
It is hard to say that MR.clark has no motive and possibility of cheating, but the reason why he can stop is because the 50-year-old has already understood that what he needs is inner happiness, not partners. He was wise, and because of it he made a perfect love and friendship. Unfortunately, most people think that constantly changing partners (or people or things or situations) is happiness itself.
It is worth mentioning that the ending of this film is very good, it can be said to be the climax of the whole film, it is a leopard tail, which makes this film unforgettable.
2006.2.20
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