Bai Lily derailed and seemed to ignite everyone's hormones. The media got excited, and the people who ate melons also watched it lively.
In this age of derailment, derailment is no longer a man's patent.
In fact, all human beings have genes for derailment. There are you and me.
Loyalty seems vulnerable to temptation. The power of instinct is as powerful as that, because sex represents happiness. Freud said that human nature seeks pleasure and avoids suffering.
The American movie "Infidelity" is about a middle-class family. The husband is successful in his career, handsome, romantic and temperament; the wife is beautiful and virtuous and is at home full-time; the son is smart and cute. This seems to be a perfect combination, so impeccable.
But at the beginning of the film, a hurricane knocked down a bicycle on the road, indicating that there is an invisible force affecting the family.
On an ordinary day, the wife prepared breakfast, sent her husband and son away, and took the train to the city for work.
She was standing on the side of the road in a strong wind, and it was difficult to stop the taxi. In the panic, he bumped into the handsome French guy holding a pile of books, and the fatal encounter caused the story to happen between the two people.
Wife (Connie) got a knee injury because of a fall. The young man invited his wife to go upstairs to treat the wound. The enthusiastic young man with strong male hormones inadvertently invited the housewife in a peaceful life.
This encounter is fatal. Before leaving, the guy gave Connie a book, and the lonely and bored housewife returned home, opened the book with a touch of old taste, and slipped out a business card. There should be no intersection in their lives.
With a mysterious magic, she got through the guy's phone. She can be said to be a good woman, has a happy family, a generous life, her husband loves her, and life is not worthy of fault, how can such a woman cheat?
Human nature cannot withstand temptation, but loyalty is actually fragile.
At first, she refused. But when the two people intertwined with firewood, nothing could stop them. Reason, affection, and family seem to be left behind.
Connie struggled in her heart again and again, admonishing herself time and time again that this was not allowed, but on the morning of each date, she still could not contain her inner desire and impulse, and still embarked on a journey of desire.
You may scold your mother in your heart, whether this woman took the wrong medicine, put such a good family, such a good husband, to satisfy this kind of sexual desire, and moral corruption can not dispel your inner resentment.
People who eat melons always stand and talk without backache. Connie is a gentle housewife, she also follows the rules, she will blame herself in her heart, she will feel guilty for being late to pick up her son, she is actually not a slut in our eyes. But she still cheated.
The husband seemed to feel something. Judging from the clues, she was lying. He hired a private investigator and found out the fact that his wife and lover had fornication.
He went upstairs alone and stood in front of the guy. The guy is not alarmed, we have to say, this is an old driver. Husband Edward was angrily unable to control himself. What irritated him was a crystal ball placed on the bedside. It was a gift he gave to his wife. The wife bought one and gave it to his lover exactly.
I think Edward's heart is broken. His true feelings are presented here in an ironic way. He raised the crystal ball representing the token of love and patted it on the boy's head. The blood was dripping and the boy fell in a pool of blood.
Edward finished handling the body in a panic, and went to his son's Christmas performance casually. A family is ruined like this. Sometimes an affair is like a hurricane, which is caught off guard, but what is whizzing past is a mess. Destructive power, if you are God's skillful hand, it will be difficult to restore it to its original state.
Both sexes are always attracted by differences, but in a common life, because they need to get along with each other, they influence each other, change each other for each other, and gradually become similar.
The similarity and understanding make people less curious, and the attraction to each other is reduced. When we are swallowed up by the trivial life day after day, we will gradually lose ourselves. Our partner is just ourselves in the mirror, just like an old man and an old wife who touches the left hand with the right hand, no more feeling, no more throbbing.
When the days are flat, we need to find alternative passions in life, and this leads to the first derailment.
Husband cheating on work or his friend, wife cheating on children. The husband enjoys his work, often working overtime, looking for sustenance, and even rekindling his passion at work. The wife devoted herself to parenting activities with great enthusiasm, and her children's achievements ignited her pride.
The two began to distance themselves further, began to isolate, began to hide, began to escape, and began to live a false husband and wife life. Perhaps on the surface, respect is like a guest, and the circle of friends is also very affectionate, but the inner part is empty. The empty space cannot be filled with materials or the current relationship.
You would say, isn't this all our daily routine? Don’t everyone live like this? Indeed, but the danger of living this way is that for a moment, when the time and place are right, the person who once belonged to you, the heart will follow others for no reason. This leads to the second derailment, which is the actual mental or physical derailment.
The affair seems to be an adventure to break the impasse in the marriage.
This reminds me of Yi Nengjing’s derailment of Huang Weide at the time and was photographed by a media reporter. These stars are very good at preventing paparazzi, but they are so easy to be photographed, and so clearly, it seems that subconsciously, she wants this matter to be exposed. Being stuck in an extramarital affair is like stepping on a steel wire. She needs a decision. And this exposure accelerated the decision, either to return to the family to restore the relationship, or to divorce and join hands with the lover.
Preventing affair, preventing derailment, and preventing minor thirds are always passive. If you always focus on defense, this is destined to be a defeated war. The war has not yet started, and has been defeated.
Marriage is a practice that requires the co-creation of two people. We are all eager to join hands to reach the end, live out the meaning of each other's lives, and become each other's soul mates.
But this path of practice is really difficult. Human nature loves the new and dislikes the old, but we have to struggle with nature. Some women just gave up the fight, began to take refuge in Buddhism, and concentrated on the Buddha. It seemed that they were letting go, but are they really letting go?
True love requires confronting the true self, being vulnerable to the partner, and having a deeper connection with each other.
True love means having an independent self, having the courage to be yourself, and accepting each other's imperfections.
True love creates differences on a common basis, and always keeps curious about each other. People are always changing. Let this change make the other person fascinated. Will TA still look out?
To avoid the harm of having an affair, you can only do yourself well.
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