This is a high-level love that ordinary people can't reach

Gennaro 2022-09-06 17:53:56

Everyone is anxious now to see how everything turns out. But the matter of love is not a marriage certificate, or something that can be achieved by calling each other exclusive.

In the relationship where they went to bed in the first episode, I never once saw the male and female protagonists call each other boyfriend and girlfriend.

The bed scene was shot beautifully in the play. I've heard my friend say that she never understood why people would like to do this, she said, dry and not enjoying it at all.

My response at the time was that the switch of the human body must be turned on by a specific person.

Too many people are tied to their own ideas while making love. It seems that this thing has to mean something, it has to be attached to something, not just doing, not just loving.

I think this is a more brilliant expression than the humorous sermons in "Sex Study Room", to see what people who are truly in love do, and see what consolation true love can have.

Both Walton and Marianne are rare smart people, and the greatest happiness that this incident has brought to their respective lives is their gradual confirmation and understanding of each other.

But most of the time, both of them are deeply sensitive. Countless times because of the subtlety of the wording, I have misunderstood the meaning, broke my heart and cried, and escaped into my heavy shell.

Problems that ordinary people can solve with a joke, neither of them can.

People are too smart to have a lot of unrealistic deconstruction of the world. This is not a tragedy unique to them. This is a situation that all ordinary people will face.

Marian is eloquent and aggressive, and Walton's writing is flowery, gentle and kind, and they are all people who have a soft spot for expressing their love, but in the face of love, both of them naturally stutter.

Even if the logical thinking has reached a deep level and can easily break through the hypocritical tricks in social life, in love, they are all helpless children, and the feeling that they are not worthy of being loved will follow step by step.

In an intimate relationship, when the real needs are exposed, and the search for acceptance is like the wound is not yet healed, just a gust of wind blows, and it is easy to feel the pain. So, try to escape at every turn.

But they still love high class.

The high level of my understanding is that you always see each other in love, respect each other, and never kidnap or hurt each other in the name of love.

They never asked each other to make any commitments, they were already in love enough to kill each other, and they never asked each other to make any compromises for themselves.

In an email from Walton to Marianne, he said, "You like tall guys, why don't you choose him?" I think he seems more suitable.

But in fact, except for him, the heroine is the same as anyone. She is too beautiful, too dizzying, and all the men who are with her will eventually listen to her advice and abuse her, so that she can have it since she was a child. Live that thought.

"You don't deserve to be loved."

The two have a deep understanding of life and know that life is always a journey of facing the wilderness alone. They allow each other to experience, to be injured, and to choose. Without love to this level, they cannot understand each other.

Like all ordinary people, they need the healing of love and the energy of soothing.

But they are also different from ordinary people. They don't think love is the end, they don't think that being together can solve all problems, they are still exploring the truth of love.

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