c and m are very intelligent, sensitive and thoughtful people. I think the beauty of the relationship between them lies in the growth and fulfillment of each other, which is very consistent with my view of love. When I was a teenager, when something bad happened, I thought, if only someone could save me, someone who loved me 100%, understood me, and tolerated me 100%. When I grew up, and after a few relationships, I slowly realized that the only person who can save me from a bad life is myself. partner is not a savior. Only by growing into a better version of ourselves, emotionally stable, brave and honest, can we embrace our lover instead of suffocating the other party in each other's entanglement. The first two splits and mergers of c and m have their own problems, they are not candid enough with each other, not mature enough, and even a little cowardly. In the days when they kept the boundaries of friends, life would still be bad, but they were both struggling to deal with their own problems and growing without knowing it. m began to contact high school classmates, said no to unwanted relationships, c solved his financial problems, and faced his inner inferiority and depression in the treatment of depression. They are like roses in the little prince to each other. They have paid a lot. They belong to each other and are unique. They are soulmates. This makes me so jealous. There will be many, many people in this world that I flipped, handsome boys, good characters, thoughtful boys, and talented boys. It is easy to start a relationship, but for me, the preciousness of a relationship is not in being together, but in the growth of two people together, which is unique and different. The ending reminds me of the final choice between Fleabag and the godfather in London life. The two people's previous relationship made each other grow. Even if they are not together in the future, they can understand that someone once loved them and they deserve to be loved. In the next life Be brave to love too. we deserve it.
View more about Normal People reviews
