When I watched the last episode of "Ordinary People" yesterday, it was already eleven o'clock in the evening.
I decided to watch this drama just to practice my speaking. In fact, I wanted to give up at one point during the whole viewing process. Isn't this a beautiful youth sex film. Apart from the outstanding photography, there is really not much to talk about the plot. The male and female protagonists can't be called love at all, they can only be called each other in the process of confusion and growth, and they have a time to accompany and get along. Even if this time is something you will never forget, what lingers more in your heart are the inseparable, entangled emotions, and the excessive hormones of adolescence. In ordinary and ordinary love, it is also necessary to be rational and responsible, and tolerance is essential. Between the male and female protagonists, there is more love. This intoxicating love is precisely because it does not have long-term and stable development, so it is always beautiful to the extreme, and painful to the extreme. In fact, after a while, if you think about it carefully, you can't live your life like this, and you can't spend all your energy on such consuming feelings. And those good things will remain, and the painful things will slowly be forgotten. It just feels sad sometimes. Yes, there are many things we can't do anything about. Talented and beautiful women should stay together for a long time if they don't consider reality, but in life you are always forced to make many choices. Nevertheless, it is a blessing to have the opportunity to experience it.
When I watched "Love in the Time of Cholera" before, I thought these two were really cruel and romantic, and I would also learn from them when I encountered the same situation. But now I feel that this is just a literary work, just look at it. Literature comes from life and is higher than life. It would be too sad if you turned your life into literature. Because from the perspective of a bystander, seeing other people become the protagonists of "literature", you will think his life is very cool, and maybe it will be recorded in history; , and when faced with people or things that you can't give up but must give up for a long time, you can't make a decisive choice. Isn't this living in an insecure and sad mood every day? Then I'd rather live a more boring, more vulgar life. Li Ao said, I don't love so much, only a little. He said that people who make love gloomy and snot and tears keep flowing are fools. It's a bit of a joke to say this, but he did it for the purpose of seeking pleasure to a large extent. And whenever you talk about Li Ao being a romantic talent, you can't forget that he once lived in prison for five years or more, and he had to load several trucks of books he read. So his words seem to me to be: find a suitable person, everyone can live a long life and support each other well. If so, "Call Me By Your Name" is more universal.
In fact, there are countless movies and episodes about love like "Ordinary People". I also watched "Marriage Story", "The Adelmans" and "Phantom Thread" some time ago. The core story and point of view are also naive, more like a constant repetition of what Polanski and Bergman have done in order to sustain the film industry. But there are still many people who like to watch it, whether you like it or not.
There's always a lot of time in life that can't be accommodated, so it's a good pastime for you to watch love stories drawn and abstracted by others. I'm not so much interested in these erotic movies as I am more moved by people's enduring desire for love and the contradictions in it, which shows that humans are still a young species. Even if you're in a relationship, there's still a lot of time to spend on your own, and you should spend it on your own. Sometimes I think about people who are in love, watching "Marriage Story" in the car on their mobile phones, listening to the traffic outside the window, and at a certain moment the lover's WeChat pops up on the top of the mobile phone, you will press pause, with the emotions in the movie Hippie flirting with a smiley face makes me feel a little magical and cute.
There is an episode of "The Reason I Live Here" about Liu Xinxin. After he designed a series of well-known advertisements, such as the logo of China Unicom and the adventure of Snow Beer, he retired in Izu, Japan, and lived by the sea. Come out and work, sunset and rest. He transformed the house into a room full of elegant artistic atmosphere by himself, and sprinkled some water along the dead wood on the balcony with wooden floor. From a distance, it was connected with the sunrise rising from the coastline at 5:00 in the morning. painting. He will have six girlfriends at the same time, and he also enjoys loneliness; he loves to invite his girlfriends to parties, and he also loves to watch movies on the big screen at home alone, and have a drink or two. Love is not the whole of life, you can immerse yourself in it, and you can also develop different imaginations and expectations for life at the same time.
At least for me, I listen to Schumann at home alone, watch the live broadcast when I get bored, and feel comfortable and happy. Maybe it's time to find the next British drama to practice speaking.
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