no one is ready for that

Daron 2022-04-22 07:01:39

Nicole Kidman's Oscar-nominated film about the lives of a couple who have lost their son. The film as a whole follows the previous routine. Everyone looks normal on the outside, and the pain in the heart will only break out inadvertently. But the film is not a happy ending, and in the end we don't know their attitude, whether they can survive or sink in.

Just finished watching Mark Ruffalo's "Reservation Road", also about the life of a couple who lost a child, but that one is more about revenge and redemption, this one is about self-healing. The only thing that is the same is that no one will feel better, it is difficult to survive, all parents are the same, 8 months, 8 years, or a lifetime, that kind of miss is as hard to pull out as it goes deep into the bone marrow.

Nicole's mother recounts how it feels to lose her son for so long: Sometimes you don't find it so hard to accept, sometimes you see through him, you can't even remember him for a while, but always come back to remind you that he's there.

The symbolic meaning of the film title "Rabbit Hole" is: entering the rabbit hole will enter a parallel universe, where there are countless selves, countless worlds, and each world is running in parallel. So in this world you are sad, maybe in some world you are living happily. This idea has a coincidence with "Source Code".

The director suggested that this could be a means of healing, a thought, a seed.

But in the end, nobody prepares for that, no one will prepare for that, no one can face it calmly.

Maybe we were not smart enough to see the world; maybe we just enjoyed the good times and hoped that it would last forever. So we can't afford good things to be taken away, for a long, long time.

Is this a human tragedy?

Are there any possible solutions other than "rabbit hole" and "source code"?

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Rabbit Hole quotes

  • [last lines]

    Becca: [voice-over] And then what?

    Howie: [voice-over] I don't know... Something though.

  • Nat: You know, Becca, when your brother died, I found the church very helpful.

    Becca: I know. I know you did, but that's you. That's not me, and Danny... Danny isn't Arthur.

    Nat: You know, I brought you to church every Sunday.

    Becca: Let's not start this again, okay, Mom? I'm just... I'm just calling about the cake.

    Nat: You're not right about everything, you know? What if there is a God?

    Becca: Then I'd say he's a sadistic prick.

    Nat: All right, Becca, that's enough.

    Becca: "Worship me and I'll treat you like shit." No wonder you like him. He sounds just like Dad.