The film tells about the life of a couple after losing a four-year-old son, their relatives, friends, and people who are also descended from the end of the world, with all kinds of differences.
Becca and her mother Nat are sorting out the little boy's belongings, their conversation. Becca's mum Nat said her friend M was always at her house when she lost Arhtur, Becca's brother. M said to help her share the pain, and mother said, you said to help me share the pain, but I don't see you taking any sadness when you go. You actually took away the cinnamon buns I made.
-You remember Maureen Bailey?
-Yeah.
-well, I couldn't get rid of her after your brother passed away. She was always at the house.
-Yeah, I remember that.
-Yeah, well, you know, I never had a moment to myself. So finally, in the middle of coffe one afternoon, I said "Maureen, why are you always here?"
-And what'd she say?
-She said, I want to be there, Nat.I want to share in your grief. And I said ,Well, it's not working. You plant your fat ass in that chair every fricking day.
-You did not say that?
-I did.
-Mom!
-I did say that.
-You said "fat ass"?
-I said, She sucks all my coffe. And I don't see you leaving with any of this alleged grief you're sharing. In fact, the only thing you do take out of here are my cinnamon buns. So I never saw her again, obviouly.
-Oh, my God, I can't believe you said that.
-I feel guilty now.
-You do not.
-I do.
-You're right. I don't miss her at all.
This reminds me of Yi Shu's "Xi Bao" saying that
I don't actually have friends. Because I don't believe in having friends. If I am just friends with Mr. Korea Tae, he will not automatically pay the bills for me. If friends can't help me in real life, what do I want them to do? Don't you want to tell me that my problem will be solved if a "friend" comforts me with words to me for ten hours?
Friends can only occasionally take me to a play or a meal when I'm in a good mood, what's the point, I'm not an eight-year-old - a teddy bear, a glass of ice cream can make me happy , no no, I'm used to being lonely.
You see, Becca's mom said at the end, You are right. I don't miss her at all. I don't miss her at all.
Will these sorrows pass. No, it has been with me for eleven years, but it will change. It seems like the pressure has become less, and at some point, it has become bearable. You can climb out of its shadow and put it in your pocket like a brick. Sometimes you can forget it's there too, but then you bump into it again, find it there, and think, oh, it was there.
I think the sadness, the pain in life, is like this. It never goes away, becomes bearable and unbearable.
There's a scene in the film where husband Howie goes to find the woman, the woman who joins a self-sustaining group to heal the pain of losing a child. Later, Howie looked at the woman at the door of her house, but immediately went home to find Becca. After all, she didn't cheat, and she was very moved.
There are also cartoons of that boy, which are also very warm.
I think the whole story structure is beautiful. Becca lost her son, Becca's mother also lost her son, and Becca's sister's belly gave birth to a new life at this time. It is easy to cause differences and conflicts in various small scenes of life. When the boy on the school bus showed up, I started thinking that he looked like Becca's son, Becca was fascinated, but no, the boy was the perpetrator, in an accidental car accident, that caused Becca's little boy's death. die. That boy's comic, a beautiful hunt down a rabbit hole in the comics.
Recommend everyone to watch.
Nicole is beautiful and I am amazed at her 1m8 height.
PS: In a certain diary of Xia Nai-kun, I saw her saying that she saw a passage in the rabbit hole:
"They will not disappear, but will slowly change with the passage of time; sometimes, you You will feel as if you have forgotten them, but at some point they will suddenly appear again; then your heart will sink, but you will not be indulged; slowly, you will feel that it is actually fine; this kind of powerless Sadness, in fact, can also endure."
And touched this movie to watch.
There are always a lot of subconscious things in life, you are always unaware, or you can't express it clearly and specifically when you realize it, and then when you see something like this, you think,
"Oh, Right, that."
I still have to complain Write movie reviews, can't post photos from movies, unhappy.
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