It's not necessarily sunny after the pain

Hosea 2022-04-22 07:01:39

Before watching this film, I was full of anticipation that it would heal suffering. Yes, I started with such anticipation. I thought that there would be something like "The Redemption of Shawn Kee" that made the world instantly brighter after rushing out of the pipe. Pleasure, this kind of anticipation makes the process even irritable, and how sad never leaves.
Then Mom said, "Sometimes, it becomes bearable." Life isn't black, it's pure white and bright? This is not the case, the gray area is the norm. Although, in the process of growing up, I have long pretended to understand the existence of the gray area and accepted it, but I still do not understand its power. It is everywhere, spreading black and white, covering
He was wearing his wedding gown, hugging his family, and leaving with the bride, you Look, sadness is always about himself, he is sad, he is sad, he is also guilty, but he still has to live, for you, this sadness is the whole world, enough to make everything collapse, and for him, sadness is real , but it is only a fraction of life, maybe at this moment I understand the grief that spreads and overflows, and I only learn to coexist with it in my own world.
When he came back to talk to her on the bench, "It's just a sad version of our lives. There are other versions, where it's all ok "Tender parallel world theory, in another parallel world" We were celebrating "Nianhua", so the world has light, although this light is not enough to illuminate the whole sad world, but its existence is the meaning of hope,
so they held a party, called all relatives and friends, and behaved brightly and cheerfully , I intend to tell everyone that they have come out of this, and then everyone spends the day happily and harmoniously, and then leaves, leaving only the two of them to continue to taste the pain behind the illusion of happiness, this is the biggest expectation, the initial When Nicole Kidman always used her grief as an excuse to hurt everyone around her, she even wanted to help her mother, a stranger in the supermarket, but no amount of grief was an excuse to hurt others. Drinking joy, it is impossible to share grief, then adapt to the days of coexistence with grief, accept it slowly, until it clearly exists, until it seems to exist, until it happens accidentally.
It is not necessarily sunny after the pain, this is the normal state of life.

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  • [last lines]

    Becca: [voice-over] And then what?

    Howie: [voice-over] I don't know... Something though.

  • Nat: You know, Becca, when your brother died, I found the church very helpful.

    Becca: I know. I know you did, but that's you. That's not me, and Danny... Danny isn't Arthur.

    Nat: You know, I brought you to church every Sunday.

    Becca: Let's not start this again, okay, Mom? I'm just... I'm just calling about the cake.

    Nat: You're not right about everything, you know? What if there is a God?

    Becca: Then I'd say he's a sadistic prick.

    Nat: All right, Becca, that's enough.

    Becca: "Worship me and I'll treat you like shit." No wonder you like him. He sounds just like Dad.