A sad version of her life begins when the protagonist Becca loses her beloved son. She coldly refuses the neighbor's invitation, hates the listening of the confidant group, ...
why are we all like this? Sad moments, refusing the speculation of friends, loathing the inquiries of classmates, things that others are accustomed to arouse their rage... as if you The sadness is out of tune with the world, and a barrier is established between everyone. Emotional communication between people was originally a difficult thing, but now it becomes more difficult. , but at a certain moment, he thought about it like an electric shock and grieved endlessly. Like in the movie when Becca saw Jason's wedding, she fell into grief and burst into tears in the car, yes, things never go away, it just changes after you forgive the cause of it, and it makes you feel like It has passed and will no longer disturb your life, but before you open your heart to forgive, it will only become heavier, unavoidable and difficult to get rid of, and you who refuse to go out can only be a lonely patient. I don't want to understand others who refuse to admit me, fight the world with my own sadness, and live in my own sad version.
Fortunately, sadness is only a part of life, maybe at some stage it takes over the whole of your life, but as long as you open your heart to forgive and forgive, it will be like the mother in the film said, the weight of things will happen Change, from a moment on, it can become bearable, allowing you to climb out of its weight and carry it in your pocket like a brick. Becca in the movie finally chose to forgive through the communication with Jason, the victim of the car accident, and she finally found another entrance to the world. Presumably, she will spend her time in another version as said in the movie. She forgave Jason because she knew how bad it felt to not be relieved by grief. Forgiveness became the final outlet for her grief. Her son was still the wound in her heart, but she could already bear it, and that was enough. isn't it?
Grief will never stop, and things will never really pass. It needs more than time, let alone comfort and sympathy. What it needs is just forgiveness for the cause and tolerance for the passing. Just like in the film, in the sad moments, there may be countless unbearable viewpoints that you can't bear, and a lot of kindness that you can't accept. You can refuse coldly or leave with disdain, but the important thing is that you see the sadness. You should also try to find another self who is no longer immersed in sadness, imagine, accept and forgive, maybe you can find the inflection point of love and see the entrance to another world.
Last but not least, the video is also not a version of Becca that gives us joy. There is only a beautiful and quiet evening left. The Becca couple who lost their beloved son have a gentle and casual conversation. The confrontation between the sad Becca and her husband has ended, and the equally sad husband also chooses to forgive the victim and be faithful to the melancholy wife. It's a beautiful ending, isn't it? Becca's confrontation with the world has ended. At least she has begun to integrate into her life. She can bear such heavy grief, and she no longer has to escape. This is already another version of her. Isn't it perfect too?
And as shown in the work, in sad moments, we may smoke marijuana like Howey, find a confidant group that we don’t love at all to divert our attention, but still look at the memories of the past in the dark night with tears streaming down our faces. Maybe like Becca, she stubbornly uses her own sorrow to isolate everything, and she fights stubbornly with the world, without anyone needing to pay attention to it, let alone trying to understand it. We will be forgiven for various gestures of sadness, but the most important thing is that we have to understand that there is a different version of ourselves in another version, the world is definitely not just the sad version of itself alone, and then try to get close to another version Self, sadness does not need desperately to escape and try to forget, since it already exists, we cannot avoid it, all we need is a little more time, a little more courage to forgive its existence, to face its inadvertent Reappears again, and slowly emerges from its weight, that's all.
It's just a story of a sad person. I can't understand the sadness of Becca's loss of her beloved son in the film, but I can still understand her decisive attitude to confront the world with sadness. This is our inherent attitude of sadness. I am very fortunate that there is such a work that can resonate with me. I also like such an excellent work to interpret another self, parallel universes, and countless interlaced spaces. There will definitely be different stories happening to me. , those who need to be discovered and liked will definitely have a better self.
"Rabbit Hole" is not only the turning point of Becca's love, but more of it is teaching us how to get out of the swamp of sadness and how to face the sad self in the future. What we are looking forward to is that one day, we can no longer fall into heavy sadness and tell the sad past with a relaxed smile. This is the entrance to another world where we no longer resist with sadness. Becca has found it. What about us?
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