One of the most impressive scenes is: Nicole and her mother moved the child's things to the basement together.
In the cramped space of the basement, Nicole stood far away, looking at the pile of things, full of sadness, and asked her mother beside her, "Will these things disappear?"
Her mother shook her head and said, "No, I don't think so, Not for me, 11 years later, he has not disappeared. But it will change."
Nicole's eyes were already red, and she asked: "How did it change?"
Mom thoughtfully replied: "I don't know. I think its weight, in a sense, becomes bearable. It becomes something that your heart can endure at last. It's like putting a brick in your pocket. At one point you even forget about it , but sometimes I bump into it for some reason. And then...it's there." Her mother seemed to realize this, "Oh, yes, that's it. It could be very Terrible. But not forever. It's like.... not exactly, but it's like being replaced by your son. Then you keep it with you all the time. So it's not going away. It's like..."
Nicole was sad at this time, and asked, "It's like what?"
Mom looked at her gently, "Okay, actually." After that, the mother turned and left the basement, leaving behind Sad Nicole meditates alone.
I think Nicole will take a long time to really understand these truths.
Remember baby Anne's saying that the best way to end a road is to finish it, always. It would be better if someone accompanies me to walk with me in the wind and rain. The truth of life is not so. Nicole and her husband lost their beloved son. Logically speaking, the two of them should hug together to keep warm and walk through the cold winter of life. But the fact is that the departure of the child has made the family no longer have the warmth and sweetness of the past, sadness, pain, depression and other emotions, and the relationship between the two has been cracked. The two quarreled from time to time, and even had no sex. Life. Nicole cleaned all the things related to the child out of the house, but it was not enough, the house was also full of shadows of the child, and the house also wanted to be replaced. According to this idea, in the end, should the husband be changed too, because the child is a relationship with the child. Did this man live together?
It also stands to reason that it should be a good way to seek help from some psychological channels, such as through narration. It is true that the Nicole couple went to a related psychotherapy group, a group of people narrated and cried together, but Nicole gradually became disgusted. What's the use of always talking about God over there? It is always said that maybe God lacks an angel, so why does God take my child and make him an angel? Isn't he God? Wouldn't it be nice to turn into an angel at the click of a button? In this therapy group, there is a couple who have even been there for 8 years, does group therapy for that long help? I think that couple who have been in therapy for 8 years told us. (In the end, the man leaves the woman.)
The final ending of the movie is very peaceful. The couple is sitting in the courtyard, just after a party. Finally hand in hand, the road will not be easy all of a sudden, but we finally walk side by side, no matter how hard we walk together, finally one day, this pain will become bearable for us, and then it will be "good".
I didn't understand the relationship between Nicole and Jason at first, but I gradually understood it. It's very subtle, I think. She didn't mean simply to forgive, but by facing that incident, facing a perpetrator like him, and finding a place in her heart in her relationship with him, she finally came to forgiveness. So in fact, what they say on the bench in the park is not particularly important. What is important is that it is their own thoughts. This is still quite subtle. I remember Nicole crying in the car when she saw Jason in her wedding dress, I was so sad, so sad, because I thought I understood.
I think that rabbit hole painting is very interesting. Black holes hide countless secrets of life. Is it science? Why does it have some theological implications?
12/25
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