The film "Rabbit Hole" describes such a story, a middle-aged couple with a stable career, a 4-year-old son, a typical middle-class, living a warm and dull life, and happiness is their summary. Until one day in an accidental car accident, the domestic hound chased the squirrel, and the 4-year-old son chased the dog again. At the beginning of the film, they explained that their 4-year-old son died in a car accident. When trauma comes, people often turn on their psychological defense mechanisms, and denial often becomes their way of comforting their hearts. In the film, every detail of the hero and heroine is there. Showing their pain caused by their great grief, the man tried his best to be calm, always pretending to be optimistic and funny in front of his wife, and reluctant to mention his children, but he was always watching secretly in the dead of night. The video of the family in the mobile phone, to relieve the huge pain in the heart, the back seat of the car still retains the child's safety seat, he does not want to wipe all the traces of the child, just because he is a man, he needs to disguise, and he needs to cover up himself. 's heart.
Compared with her husband, the heroine misses her children to the extreme. On the one hand, she is constantly covering up her inner pain, and on the other hand, she pretends to forget the sadness and start over. I want to start over but I don't want to forget it. The sadness lingers in that moment. The couple goes to the talk group. Although they both have the same problem, but even so, no amount of words are empty. When she blamed God for needing a lovely angel, she was angry, and she questioned that since God is all-powerful, why didn't he make an angel himself, but take hers instead. The logic of God doesn't work for her at the moment, she needs a belief, a belief that can comfort her. She couldn't let go of the sadness in her heart. Even the comfort of her mother, who had experienced the same situation as her, would not make her comfortable, but aroused her anger. She kept destroying everything related to the child, but kept looking for things related to the child, until she found the driver who made her lose the child, a high school student. She seemed to have found hope. She put all her thoughts on her child on this high school student, the best way not to forget is that I can see real people, which I can't destroy, so that I can always think of the child until she sees the high school When she gave birth to the wedding car, she thought that the high school students were going to leave her, and her instantly suppressed emotions broke out. She recalled the car accident and recalled the starting points. At that moment, I believed that the high school students were regarded as her own children by her. Finally, the high school student's cartoon "Rabbit Hole" gave her a new belief, maybe we all live in a parallel space, and there is a me in different spaces, since this sadness is just this sad space, there is a me in another space Happy me, maybe the child is in that happy space. After watching this film, I will be infected by every detail in the film. When trauma occurs, no amount of comfort is always pale, and there are all kinds of tragedies in our life, and life should go on. Maybe a belief can keep life going, and there will also be a faint rainbow in the sky where the dark clouds roam It is very empty and hard to touch the heart, and God's real comfort comes to the Lord Jesus who walked on the cross and shed blood for you and me. That moment is real. He realizes the weight of your flesh.
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