People are lonely all their lives, and everyone longs to be understood, but cannot fully understand and be understood by others. But the feeling of loneliness is too cold, colder than the ice and snow outside, I still need to build a fire at home, bake a stove, warm my body, and warm my heart...
One person is one world, there are too many values, social environment, religious background, gap between rich and poor, education level, etc. Everything you experience will affect and change your thinking. Today you are different from yesterday. you. We can’t judge others at will. We have different positions and different starting points. For the same thing, you are the representative of different positions, and the evaluations made are different. Therefore, I warn myself never to judge others arbitrarily.
The two dialogues between the male protagonist and his wife and sister are very profound and meaningful. There are too many human points worth thinking about. The male protagonist is proud and weak. His wife exhausted her youth to be with him. She doesn't love him anymore, but she can't live without him, because she doesn't have the courage or ability to find a better life, so she wants to find self-confidence in philanthropy and reflect her own value, instead of becoming a parasite and clinging to everything male lead. The male protagonist said that she was living too well, that she had never suffered, and that she did not know how to be grateful. When his wife went to deliver money to the tenant, the tenant burned the money, the wife was stunned, and cried, and the tenant also cried. I was stunned by this paragraph, and I don't know how to understand it. I saw a short comment. One sentence quoted "Dignity is the only pride of the poor, and pride is the dignity that the rich are unwilling to give up".
In the end, the male protagonist came back. That monologue was great, and the ending was further sublimated. Regarding the transformation and sublimation of oneself, it is constant self-examination, constant breakthroughs in oneself, and changes in one's own thoughts. Adults, especially as they get older, have a heavy ego, and many thoughts cannot be easily changed. He couldn't directly say to his wife that he couldn't leave her and miss her because the pride in him couldn't let him do it. Maybe it's because he went to the farm, saw his friend's loneliness, and heard what his friend said about the constant departure of family members, parents, wife, daughter, and finally he was alone, and many rooms in the house were never used again. . So, loneliness is really lonely, and if you don't understand, you really don't understand, but if you are fortunate enough to be a family, no matter how much you quarrel, I still hope you are there, willing to stay with you, accompany each other, and go out, so do I Lonely and strange, there is no place to go, and no one can tolerate me, but at home, we are still a family, we can still live together, and there is a "home" to accommodate us, comfort each other's lonely hearts, together Through the long, cold winter...
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