My friend Fresh told me that she plans to do a talk show on her audio program. She will ask her friends some questions. Among the questions she lists, one of the questions is the one that has impressed you the most in the past week. What is the matter?
What has been the most impressive thing for me over the past week?
"Every morning in the morning, I see the sun shining down." The answer flashed through my mind like an electric shock. Although this may not sound like a good answer, it is the truest thought.
When we had these conversations, it also appeared in the early morning. At that time, I was in the sunshine of the green road of Baiyun Mountain.
After a long time, I finally adjusted my schedule and started to go to bed early and get up early. Make sure to go to bed before 12 and get up at 6 every day. Get up in the morning to write an article, read a book, or go for a walk, or do nothing at all. If you have a regular work and rest time, you will suddenly feel that your day is longer, you do more things, and you become smarter.
None of these seem to be the most important, the biggest takeaway is that I have never had much time and opportunity to observe the sky and the morning sun.
I think people need these nutrients, and we need to store these seemingly ethereal substances in our hearts.
In the early morning of Baiyun Mountain, you can see countless rays of light falling from the woods, shining on pedestrians, and sprinkled on the clean ground. These lights, as if drying the darkness and heaviness in your heart, reflect a rainbow when they meet your eyes.
You must not think that this is a literary imagination, it is really a beautiful picture of reality. It's a placebo and a lifesaver that can keep you troubled and troubled later in life. You are illuminated by these sunshine, you keep them in your heart, and in the future, there will be a place for them.
In the movie "A Man Named Ove Decided to Die", Ove, who had been working in a train factory since his apprenticeship, was fired by his young boss after 43 years of work. When he returned home, he saw that when he was young, he worked hard to build a good community environment and there were no rules. The young people in the community felt that this old man who always followed the rules was very annoying. Ove's crossing became more and more difficult, and it was only when he went to his wife's grave every day to lay flowers and chat that he felt more comfortable. Dissatisfied with these realities, he decided to die. From hanging to a shotgun, he has been unsuccessful in committing suicide again and again. He continues to live a miserable life trying to find an opportunity to die, while struggling with his old and new neighbors.
Every time he commits suicide, he recalls his life before "dying". When I committed suicide for the first time, I remembered that when I was a child, I was dependent on his father, and life was difficult, but my father loved him very much. And educate him to be a real person. When I committed suicide for the second time, I recalled the first time I met my wife on the train. When I committed suicide for the third time, I recalled that my wife became a disabled person because of a car accident, and she became an excellent teacher through continuous efforts.
When he opened up to his neighbors to talk about the past, the strong qualities his father brought him, and the good memories his wife left him, made Kainu less so when he decided to die. people hate it. He started feeding stray cats, telling stories to children, and taking in "out" teenagers who were kicked out by their families.
In the movie, Ove's entire life looks miserable. His mother died when he was a child, and his father died when he was young. When he was young, his wife became disabled in a car accident. In old age, his wife left. At the age of 59, he was expelled from the factory. His decision to die seemed a necessary choice. However, in these seemingly tragic realities, his heart has stored so much sunshine in his life.
It was these moments of seeing the light that made him unsuccessful in dying again and again. Instead, every time he died, he had to stop suicide because he wanted to help him.
When we are swimming in the complex river of human growth, there is no guarantee that we will not be destroyed and transformed. May become fierce, stubborn, dark, and have a lot of urges to die. If you can store some "sunshine", "rain and dew", "light wind" and "moonlight" in your casual life. . . . . . . Perhaps, the heaviness and pain in the future may become less terrifying because of the existence of these things.
Whether it's the morning sun or the evening sunset. Try to store something like this that opens up your heart every day, something that pulls you out of your struggles.
Keep more places where your heart will not collapse.
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