There will always be a moment when people decide who they want to be. And the moment Ove was, maybe it was when he met Sonia. A 59-year-old old man with a quirky temper and a dislike of the East and the West, with indestructible principles, daily routines, and a temperament that can be violent at any time, dangles in the community, and is secretly called "the evil neighbor from hell". He patrols around every morning, moving bicycles that are not parked on the grid line, checking whether the garbage is sorted according to regulations, complaining that someone's lawn is not mowed, and cursing the shed stray cat. When he faced this disappointing world, he thought of suicide. Until one November morning, when a narcissistic couple and their two narcissistic daughters moved to the next door and accidentally crashed his mailbox... That's how the story unfolded. The film is adapted from the novel of the same name by the Swedish post-80s writer Frederick Buckman. This novel has been a bestseller since it was published, not only because of the prosaic stories that trigger people's thinking about modern social issues, but also about themselves, Reflection on life. People magazine called it Sweden's "One Man's Pilgrimage." "When you read this story, you will laugh, you will cry, and you will want to move to northern Europe, because everything is more lovely there. This story in Sweden, like a celebration of life, makes us think, ourselves Who, and how we're going to live this life." To many, Ove's stubbornness is as silly as seeing a man in Brioni picking up trash on the street. But you would never have imagined that such an unpleasant old man had a beautiful and knowledgeable wife when he was young, and had a child who had not yet come to the world. I think Sonia is the smartest woman in the world, and only she sees Ove's kindness. And she herself is an existence worthy of many women's learning. Neighbor Pavina succeeded in making Ove happy for the last three weeks of his life. Ove had no children in his life, and Pavina's child just filled the vacancy in Ove's life. The film runs through each of Ove's attempted suicides, and Pavina happens to interrupt Ove in each suicide attempt in a different way. This may be God's will, or it may be that Ove is still reluctant to let this world, and Pavina happened to give Ove a chance to turn back. Ove's serious way of dying, his suit, perfume, shirt, and hair are neatly combed. This is his most sincere love for his deceased wife Sonia. He hopes that in front of Sonia, he will never be sloppy. "Loving someone is like moving into a house, you'll fall in love with everything new at first, revel in every morning you have it - but over the years The outer wall of Yue's house starts to get old, you gradually don't love it so much because it should be perfect and imperfect, and then you gradually become familiar with all the flaws and flaws, and these are the little secrets that will give you a sense of belonging. In the film, whether it is Ovie's persistent view of love for life or his own view of life, they are all lacking in modern society. Ovie's life is no different from ours, it is ordinary, in the various changes in society Ups and downs. In the eyes of outsiders, Ove is irritable, and he can never compromise with himself. It seems that he is too tired to live. But he asks himself, if we are only seeking our own life, will we live well? Is there a love that we care about for a lifetime? In fact, most of us don't have Ove's happiness. We don't want to admit that Ove's stubbornness is actually right, because we don't want to put too much responsibility on our shoulders. She often said: "Every road eventually will lead you to your destined destination. "For her, it may be "something". But for him, it is "someone". In the end, Ove ends his life peacefully, which seems to be compared with his previous extremes. It's ridiculous, but this is the best ending. A truly kind person left, but there will be many people who remember him. Bless Ove, and I wish myself, no longer turn a blind eye, no longer escape pain, no longer pay attention to Love compromises, no longer run numbly. Of course life will have an end, but the enthusiasm for life should not be diminished. Oneself, no longer turn a blind eye, no longer escape pain, no longer compromise with love, no longer run numbly. Of course life will have an end, but the enthusiasm for life should not be diminished. Oneself, no longer turn a blind eye, no longer escape pain, no longer compromise with love, no longer run numbly. Of course life will have an end, but the enthusiasm for life should not be diminished.
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