The idea of the film is simple and clear, and tells us the story of RENY, her beauty and ugliness, her confidence and inferiority, with a concise and clear story line.
We all know what the film wants to say, "believe in yourself" and "you are the best". You are the best, everyone has heard that phrase countless times, from different people, from TV commercials. But why are we still not confident?
We laughed when we saw Reni confidently participating in the bikini competition, when we saw her sitting at the front desk of Lilys confidently, and when we saw that she really understood every slander as a compliment. That's what we want in our hearts, but can't do.
Because, the reality is, self-confidence is not something that can be achieved by listening to a word of encouragement, making the next determination, or giving one or several hints in the heart. The most primitive self-confidence comes from our living environment. Are we often encouraged or often beaten? Is it often positive or negative? Does the denial come from the people we are closest to or care about the most? Are you sure? Gradually, the attitude of others towards us has evolved into our attitude towards ourselves: do we often affirm ourselves or deny ourselves? !
Innate self-confidence is cultivated in the environment where we grew up, can it be changed the day after tomorrow? sure. We can master the business and then get the affirmation and gain confidence. The only difference is that innate self-confidence or lack of self-confidence makes us stand on a different starting line when we first accumulate skills or abilities. In other words, self-confidence and high technical skills have a certain causal and circular relationship. The more confident you are, the more you dare to try, and the more willing to work hard, because you know, or you believe that hard work is useful, and when you become more proficient, you will become more confident, which is a virtuous circle. What about the other way around? A vicious circle, the less confident you are, the less you will believe that your efforts will be successful, the less you will work hard, and the less you will be proficient, the less confident you will be. The logic of positive feedback and negative feedback is so smooth, but the former is gratifying, the latter is disappointing.
The truth is easy to understand, who hasn't heard the phrase "confidence is very important"? In high school, every morning in the self-study class, I would organize a swearing oath like I know I'm awesome, and everyone said: I know I'm amazing. Do we really know? I really didn't know it at the time, I didn't feel it at all. Oversized Beauty turns a simple truth that we don't perceive ourselves into a story with characters and a plot, and we see it.
RENY was suddenly in the mirror of the gym, and found the shining point of his body, and suddenly felt that he was super invincible and beautiful. Let's think about it this way, one day you look in the mirror and find that you look like Fan Bingbing, what would you do? Or how to react? The little brother who wants to make an appointment but dare not make an appointment, still dare not make an appointment? Do you still worry about your boss losing his temper from time to time? No, you will love yourself more, and the world will be more gentle to you, so you will love the world more and your life more. Reni is like that. She loved herself to death, and felt that others loved her too, and the world came just as she thought. "Law of Attraction"? I would say yes.
This movie brings the truth we all know to the screen. From the heroine, we really feel the power of self-confidence. It is more real and stronger than the sentence "You are the best".
We should all understand that even if we have self-confidence, we can't really get everything we want as easily as the heroine, because the world has its own rules of operation. For example, if we don't study hard, we can't get good grades. , and also, without working hard to move bricks, the building will not be built automatically because you are confident. Self-confidence is a prerequisite, and we have to make real and practical efforts to understand the knowledge points and build the building layer by layer.
However, I believe that as long as you are willing to spend time and put in effort, the problem can be solved, and the building can be built, which is a rare and beautiful thing in itself, isn't it?
Why do we always disbelieve?
Look, that super size BEAUTY!
,,,,,,,,,,
��5r�m 闋&�
View more about I Feel Pretty reviews
