say goodbye to the past

Harmony 2022-04-22 07:01:39

Although some friends said I fell asleep watching Blueberry Night, and some friends said they didn't like Wong Kar Wai's style, I still watched Blueberry Night for Nora Jones and Jude Law, and I watched it several times on Potatoes. Elizabeth

(Jones)'s boyfriend fell in love with another girl. Originally, she wanted to ask her boyfriend to
meet in a cafe, and even gave him the keys to her boyfriend's apartment in a fit of anger. But her boyfriend never showed up. Sad Elizabeth wants to talk to someone, sits in Jamie's (Judelor) cafe, and the two chat for a long time. Since then, the two sides have established a good relationship.

Elizabeth is a kind-hearted girl, chasing her own dreams. Own a car
and go where she wants to find her own happiness.
Jamie and his ex-wife run the cafe on their own after their divorce. Run your own dreams alone.
Some people, and there are girls whom he likes very much, come and go from his life and don't stay.
Jamie jokes that there is a lot of food every day that guests order but don't take away.
People make too many either-or-no choices.
until Elizabeth showed up.

The film adds some other people's stories to the main line of the development of the two people's emotional story.
Those who go out eventually return to where they belong.
Another belonging story.
I like.

A lot of details made me think a lot.

About the key.
How much does a key mean to 2 people? The key can open a door and also meet the person you're looking for. Maybe we've both taken or held the keys to each other's rooms. Think about it, trusting the other party first will give you a set of keys. And be fully prepared to let another person into your
life at any time. 1 room has 2 owners since then. The key at this time is happiness.
As the relationship between two people dilutes or even breaks down, the key is superfluous to the other person.
Why can't this extra key just be thrown away?
Holding the key, you can use the excuse to return the key and see the other party for the last time.

Jamie said we're not going to throw away the keys. Then we can't meet again.
In fact, Jamie didn't want to close his heart. He believes that there will always be people in this world who will meet again and will not be separated, so he will always wait in place. Like later, his ex-wife came to visit him.
Although their moods have changed. Although he knew they were still different.
Things are changing, Jamie said. He looked at Elizabeth as he spoke. Elizabeth said, I don't care.

Having a key or not is not the main thing. Because there are times when the door is left open, no one will appear.
As long as you want to find her, even if it takes thousands or hundreds of calls, you must find her.
And some people, even in front of their eyes, get along day and night, but they can't find a way to get close to their hearts.

However, when the door is opened, is the person you are looking for really there?

How wonderful to wait. Too long makes people complain.
Not too long, not too short, the temperature is just right.

Some time ago, a friend asked me, have you ever had a deep relationship?
Is there? The feelings that I once thought were so deep, so deep and so unforgettable, eventually
faded away with time.
"How to say goodbye to the past?" Elizabeth said, and I didn't say goodbye, I just walked away.
From that night on, I decided to stay away from the past.
If that relationship is as short and beautiful as the neon lights at night. Still mourning its passing.
The background music of "In the Mood for Love" also sounded slowly as Elizabeth cried.

If you are in love, how can you say goodbye so happily?
I have a habit of not saying byebye to my friends. I always feel that such a goodbye will herald a goodbye.

Really leaving. Nothing needs to be said. That old train that carried me full of love for you is
gone forever.


old love new injury

Very sad about the police story about suicide by car.

Men and women who love each other so much will be separated because of misunderstandings, and even hate each other.

Benny originally wanted to write a letter to his ex-wife for an explanation and communication, but once again he saw that his rival still severely injured the other party uncontrollably. He yelled at his ex-wife who was going to slam the door and leave with a gun. Not long ago, because the two had another conflict and misunderstanding, his ex-wife hit him hard, "We are finished, everything is over!" Ban Ni put down the pistol, he was reluctant, and recalled that the woman he loved had really left him. His eyes were empty, and he was deeply disappointed.
That night, he drove his car into a telephone pole.
Before, he often visited the bar where Elizabeth worked. He liked this girl who was willing to listen. Elizabeth said that she wanted to buy a car. After the last time he got drunk, Benny gave Elizabeth
all the money in his wallet . Do men get tired of the world because the woman they love so much has left? Think back to what happened in your own life as a child. My heart is also aching. Why would you do such a cruel thing to someone you love so much? Do you have to say such cruel words and do something irreversible? All love and hate is like a knife that penetrates deeply into the heart and body of the lover. Don't leave someone who loves you dearly. Although, when you are disappointed with reality, you will say that the world will turn around without you. But, without you, I may no longer truly live. At the end of the story of Elizabeth and the gambling girl, there is an ending theme of "Motorcycle Diary". The empty-string guitar is extremely desolate in the monologue of the gambling girl and the highway in the evening in the United States. The gambler says, never trust anyone. Even his dying husband. The man she both loved and hated. The deception of life made her also begin to learn to deceive.























She couldn't live up to the lies she made to herself and others.
Why not face reality and be kind to yourself?

Gambling is a game of winning and losing, a competition of luck and psychological stimulation.
If you lose, you can try again.
A friend said that in his last failed marriage, he learned to gamble and was unable to extricate himself
until he lost terribly.

Either escape or play, know what you really want and choose to follow your heart.


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My Blueberry Nights quotes

  • Elizabeth: Why do you keep them? You should just throw them out.

    Jeremy: No. No, I couldn't do that.

    Elizabeth: Why not?

    Jeremy: If I threw these keys away then those doors would be closed forever and that shouldn't be up to me to decide, should it?

    Elizabeth: I guess I'm just looking for a reason.

    Jeremy: From my observations, sometimes it's better off not knowing, and other times there's no reason to be found.

    Elizabeth: Everything has a reason.

    Jeremy: Hmm. It's like these pies and cakes. At the end of every night, the cheesecake and the apple pie are always completely gone. The peach cobbler and the chocolate mousse cake are nearly finished... but there's always a whole blueberry pie left untouched.

    Elizabeth: So what's wrong with the blueberry pie?

    Jeremy: There's nothing wrong with the blueberry pie. Just... people make other choices. You can't blame the blueberry pie, just... no one wants it.

  • Elizabeth: [wiping her tears] How do you say goodbye to someone you can't imagine living without? I didn't say goodbye.

    [pause]

    Elizabeth: I didn't say anything. I just walked away.