It is really difficult to express my opinion succinctly in just a few hundred words, and there is a lot to say, so I simply open the long comment.
Forget the time, 14 years old in 1921, 38 years old in 1945, only from the age difference of 24 years between the two, it may not be a big deal today, don't you see ncmm... But lo is only a 14-year-old minor, No matter how traumatized a man is, you shouldn't do this to a 14-year-old girl. You can love her, wait for her for a few years, let her live a normal life before becoming an adult, and then let her choose freely. And lo probably lacked fatherly love since childhood, and had some unusual feelings for a mature man who could be her own father. She may be precocious or rebellious, but after all, she is not yet fully mature mentally and physically. That's right, the young girl's body and mind are very attractive. There is a saying that "no matter how old a man is, he likes a young and beautiful woman", but the reverse is also true for women. Who doesn't like good-looking skin and exuberant vitality Woolen cloth. Like is one thing, action is another. Between an adult man and an underage girl, there is an inequality of economic ability. She must rely on him and please him in order to get what she wants - money. This kind of love that is restrained by one party in life is deformed after all, just like the love between a teacher and a student. Even if one party is a college student and does not need to rely on the other party financially, once the teacher exerts its inherent power as a teacher into the relationship, Then the restrained students have absolutely no ability to fight back, because the life and future of the students are in the hands of the teacher. this is not fair.
Love needs to stand on equal personalities, and both parties should have the ability to freely choose, love or not love. Love that uses external force as the leading or auxiliary will not be truly happy after all. Just like when lo can yell at the professor "I made the money myself" when she is angry, she thinks that she is just cooperating and pleasing the other party in exchange for money and freedom. When she didn't want to continue such a life, she would continue to cooperate after escaping in the rain, quietly planning to leave this man. In the end, although she lived a poor life, she was happy.
A few days ago at station B, I happened to see an UP master filming a video of "Being a Lolita for a Day". She wore French girl makeup, bathed in the bright sunshine, lay on the green grass covered with floral cloth, kicked The feet, calves, water waist, and breasts that are wearing white socks are all showing the beautiful curves that belong to women, and it really makes a girl lolita fresh and natural, which makes people yearn for it. Exquisite and slender body, fair and tender skin, girls hope that they can keep it forever, and boys will always love and appreciate it. Not only a young appearance, but a young heart is more infectious. Since I came to graduate school and lived on the same campus with undergraduates, I really envy them that they are still enjoying the best college youth. Although I graduated less than a year ago, my mood is already "old". I envy them that they still have a lot of time for studying and having fun, whether they work hard or splurge, they all have capital, no matter if the days like this have just begun or are about to end, I envy them all, because this is university, this is youth . And although I was in the same place with them, I always felt a strong sense of alienation. Although I was also a student here, it seemed like I was just a passerby from outside the school. Different after all. Especially this semester, that is, not long ago, I came into contact with undergraduate courses, undergraduate teachers, and followed undergraduate students on Weibo. I saw that they admired teachers so much and were so passionate about learning. Teachers are also happy to be with students. Interacting, caring for each other, getting along like friends, the taste in my heart is sour. Teachers who are liked by students, the classrooms are always full and additional seats are needed. Students often come to occupy seats a few hours in advance. If it is a morning class, they will go out at 6:00 in the morning to grab a seat in the front row and stay away from the teacher. More recently, students have called them "academic star chasers." The teacher explained it on the podium, and the students listened to it word by word. As soon as I got to the key point, the whole classroom began to make a crackling sound of keyboard tapping, which not only did not make me feel noisy, but felt comfortable. Such a university was something I had never been exposed to and could not have imagined in the past four years, but it also gave me an insight into what a real university is like.
At the end of the summer, I will be moving out to a graduate-only campus. I feel a kind of cruelty that is about to be pulled back to the reality of life, but this should be the right choice at this age, staying with people like you, doing what should be done at this age, the "right" thing. Yes, probably lost the cost of trial and error. I feel reluctant, because I can no longer see beautiful and smart young girls on the road every day, and I will always face the same as myself, in order to seek a certain and satisfactory future years and decades. People who go forward with a burden. I'm not belittling such people, I'm probably just stuck in the past and don't want to come out. Like Hanbert from Lolita.
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