am amazed at the difference in feelings between Easterners and Westerners.
Westerners do not repress their feelings and release recklessly (and whether it is ethical or not, but they dare to release) while Easterners are too reserved and restrained, which causes so many regrets.
And this difference comes from our childhood, and the constraints and education we have received.
"Lolita" enthusiastically "seduced" his stepfather due to his young and precocious maturity.
"A Letter from a Strange Woman" and Xu Jinglei's childhood was spent in peeping and heartbroken waiting. This is their difference. East-West gap.
The former makes us feel romantic and lovely, the latter makes us feel melancholy and beautiful.
The origin is that we can't release love well when we are children. So there is still a certain repression of love in adulthood. To form a unique way of love in the East.
[:P personal opinion]
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