First of all, I can't help but put the comparison picture of the goddess Theron. The professionalism has a long history. Whether in the domestic film circle or the international film circle, as a top beauty, it is rare to be willing to make such a big sacrifice for the role (ps: The first line of Chinese circles) actresses can't feel it). From "The Devil" to "Mad Max 4" to this "Tully", Queen Theron once again sacrificed her beauty, this time only to show the most real life that fits the line of ordinary people. Bonus points for Theron, no matter how many times she is "disfigured", she is the most beautiful Dior goddess.
This movie mainly tells the story of the married heroine Marlow being tortured by her two children and her soon-to-be-born child. The heroine herself was prepared to deal with all this by herself, but with the birth of the newborn, life became more and more deviated from the right track, and gradually exceeded the limit she could endure. Therefore, she accepted her brother's suggestion to find a night-time nanny and found her. A nanny named Tully was hired to help her with her night work. With the meticulous help of this young girl named Tully, she gradually got respite and had a good friendship with her. But in the end, after the most difficult time for each other, Tully left her, leaving the well-prepared heroine to get back on track with her life on her own.
If this movie only tells such a story, it is not necessarily brilliant, it just tells a very common little story in life, but the real merit of the movie is: through a person who has been suppressed by life to the point of insanity Mother came to tell us a truth - you always give up your past self for some more important things. This is life, because this is the path you have chosen.
I have wondered why the movie is named after the nanny. After all, she is not the first heroine, and finally I gradually discovered that the nanny is not someone else, but the self that the heroine has kept in her heart for many years and wants to return to, when life takes her step by step As she dragged into the abyss, she materialized her past self and escaped reality. From the last paragraph, in fact, the male protagonist has never seen the night nanny at home, and he does not know her name. The nanny's name is actually the heroine's surname, and the heroine is already on the verge of collapse. Who will help her breathe? It's just an imaginary made by herself when she has a mental breakdown. The life ideal of a nanny is exactly the heroine's dream when she was young. In the end, although the heroine lived the life she had when she was young, she finally realized that this kind of life was impossible for her. The pain of bearing, this is the monotonous daily life that I longed for when I was young, but it has become my own reminder. So the young woman kept telling herself about the benefits of this kind of life and her determination not to regret it, but I felt pitiful and ridiculous, and kept hypnotizing myself like ignoring the bells. I wonder if it was worth it or not? In the end, the heroine finally obeyed reality and self-brainwashing, and returned to the siege. Even if the hero finally found out that he was willing to share the housework, would this siege life really make people yearn?
There are two main ideas for this film. First, it may indeed have the effect of anti-marriage and anti-children, showing most of the life segments that are destined to go through nakedly in front of people, not to mention that in reality, how can there be so many husbands who have found conscience and meticulous brothers? Theron's comparison chart can just reflect the ten years ago and ten years later that most people are in the siege of marriage and childbirth. In fact, the changes in the two versions of the heroine in the movie are shocking enough. What's more, many of us have done all this without making this preparation, so we are forced by life and still think about our past years. It is true that the greatness of mother's love coerces the heroine step by step to the point of self-conviction, for which she gave up her entire life, and we have to pay tribute to this. But have you ever thought about why we need to bring an extra life when we are not ready? In fact, when the daily life can no longer cope, the heroine may not want a third child, driving herself crazy Reduced focus on each child.
I always say that in fact people are different, not everyone will fall in love with others, and not everyone will raise children well. After all, there is no qualification certificate for this kind of thing. How do you know if you are qualified or not? What's more, many people are born very different. They love themselves so much that they cannot be loved by others. How can there be so much room for compromise? Being a human being, the first thing is self-satisfaction. When self-satisfaction is low, don't easily meet the emotional needs of others. You may not be able to do it, and you are more likely to go into a vicious circle. What's more, everyone actually has the initiative in life. If It's really suitable and unwilling, so why force yourself, and finally find out that you can't force it, isn't it more sad? If your life is full moon, you have to think about the other benefits of having one more person in your life enough to protect you from future risks. For example, no one stipulates an age for falling in love and no one stipulates an age for having children. Some people's lives are already very good, and they don't need others to accompany them, and they are unwilling to take other responsibilities. Staying together, what are the chances of a better life? At that time, that little regret will expand with the consumption of enthusiasm at the beginning, so if you don't love it so much, why say it? This is especially true when it comes to having children. If a life comes to the world, you can't ensure your care for him. Why do you have to do this? How is it different from murder? Some things we do are destined to be compromised. If the past is really so important, it is better to make every decision to see if you really have that awareness and strength. I think that the heroine has been overestimated to a large extent. My own ability to choose to cope with several children when I am alone, but most of us still do not have her sense of responsibility. When we choose a road, most of us can't turn back. Of course, the heroine's life is a siege, but does anyone think she can break through the siege? Then it becomes selfish, after all, it is no longer a one-person time, and it is enough to feel good about yourself.
We will find that people often think that any female star who does not have children will have defects in life, why should they point fingers at other people's lives? Isn't it a bigger defect that most of them have children but can't take care of them well? There are often people who criticize the situation of the child's accident due to the temporary neglect of the parents. Have you ever thought that it may be a real negligence, and you are overwhelmed by the daily trivia. In the same way, why complain about other people's differences, other people's lives have their own happiness.
We may not all get married and have children, but we all have our own life choices. Another point is the choice of life segment. We have different dreams and different pursuits in different life segments. This is understandable. Depending on your position, you will naturally have many different ideas, but there is one thing you need to respect your heart and choose carefully. After all, life is only once. If you regret every day, the regret may be small at first, but most of them are too late when you want to change. Ten years in old age may only accumulate time, but three years in youth Five years may be a lifetime. After all, when we are young, we have a lot of time to think, and we will forget it later, and even later thinking will become selfish. Therefore, if you have a choice in your heart, you can do it as soon as possible. Don't wait until there is no way to go and then keep on thinking about it. Most of them are just deceiving themselves. However, there are many times when our choices at different times are not a problem at the time, and it is only after that step that we find that we can't cope. If you still have the capital, it will be better to change the way, but if it is not possible, you can only correct it like the heroine. Mentality, and take a good look at their ability to bear. In recent years, there have been many suicides due to postpartum depression and career failure. Many times we just lack the step to adjust ourselves and find the belief in life. When it comes to the kind of life that you don't like, it is better to adjust your mentality, let go of yourself, and deal with the difficulties in the future one by one. Maybe it will be a brand new situation after the next page.
Finally, the answer to the heroine when young Tully left: each of us has our own needs to do, and it goes on and on. So make your own choices, don't let yourself live like a frog in warm water, become more and more numb, and only realize that your life is just a suffocating nightmare when you are about to die. Another point is that everyone is independent, and they can not seek common ground, but they must be different. If you put your own happiness on others, it is difficult for you to have a real sense of happiness. Your path and happiness are actually mostly It's not selfish, but responsible to yourself. (ps: Cherish your youth. After all, you can enjoy yourself in your 20s, but your 30s are like garbage trucks that come to your alley at 5 in the morning.)
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