What kind of creatures are women?
From the time of birth, the biological distinction and the traditional concept of Chinese society have changed the attitude of family members. Some families will hold the baby firmly with their big hands, while others will use a reproachful eye to talk to them. The attitude of blaming faces the exhausted mother who has just given birth, "Why is it a girl?" Families who have given birth to a second child may also be glad that the newly born child is a girl. After all, a girl means that the cost of parenting in the future is relatively low. The pressure on the family is relatively light. From birth, women are confronted with different attitudes and full of attention, which is a kind of ironic luck.
In childhood, in cardamom years, in flower letter era, women were called girls at that time. Different education methods and different attitudes determine different paths for girls. From the equal treatment of everyone, to the gradual appearance of justice is justice. The girls who were carefully crafted by God became the focus of everyone, and the girls who yawned and trembled when God made them also became the focus of everyone. One enjoys flowers and praises in the spotlight, while the other endures helplessness and ridicule in the dark corner. No matter how talented some people are, they will never be able to compare to a look back from Bai Fumei. Under the anxiety of adolescence, driven by jealousy, and the rise of comparison, some girls can't see themselves clearly. In the materialistic atmosphere, he blindly pursues material life, tortures his body in various ways with a skinny and beautiful aesthetic attitude, and uses various alcohols to numb his mood in an open-ended friendship mode. But fortunately, there will always be some girls who are down-to-earth on the road of pursuing their dreams without hesitation, with a bookish fragrance and a pure heart. Simplicity is considered rare, refinement is considered rare. This is a time of indescribable contradictions that girls love and hate.
Controversy is always women, from dressing to work, from love to marriage. Two days ago, I saw a female friend's complaint in the circle of friends - "Tattooing is a socialist?? Going to the nightclub is to worship money and decadence?? Wearing a camisole is a showman?? There are many friends of the opposite sex. Play with your heart?" This is the impact of the traditional thinking that girls should keep themselves safe and self-respect and the feminist thinking that is becoming more and more open today. A girl in a camisole, a girl with exaggerated earrings, and a girl with heavy makeup will always be looked at by uncles and aunts on the road. Those eyes seem to criticize their own conduct, but morality What is the inevitable connection between quality and dressing style? In this era that has always emphasized equality between men and women, men are engaged in fluctuating and fluctuating careers. The so-called "breakthrough" career is a kind of brave and masculine. It seems to be the responsibility of a man. Girls are taught to have stable jobs. For girls, job stability may be the best destination. Perhaps it is because after marriage, women have to take on more responsibilities of the family, so they need stable jobs. Work is only the second priority, and family always needs to be the first. This may be the responsibility imposed on women by today's society.
It has always been believed that the so-called leftover women are just criticisms arising from the fierce collision between single women and the traditional concept that the family is the first priority. Because they are not married, they are called leftover women, as if they are born as women, they must get married and have children. They are called middle servants of the old and the young. It is a matter of course, an obligation and a responsibility. Who is it that imposes such responsibilities? Getting married and having children is by no means the dividing line that girls call women, but rather a change in maturity. Just like when people judge whether a man is a boy or a man, what he looks at is the way he behaves, so why not look at a woman with the eyes of a man? Cleaning, washing and cooking are women's responsibilities; So Marlo was so tired that he had a nervous breakdown, so Marlo lost himself, so Marlo could only be alone with self-pity, so Marlo had to smile and tell her husband that you are busy with yourself. This kind of self-sacrifice is by no means selfless, but helpless. Marlo is worthy of respect, because she can endure her own badness and strive to make the family beautiful, Marlo is worthy of praise, because he best fits the positioning of women in our society - a competent mother, a dedicated wife, Marlo Compassionate because he has a sick child and a boyish husband who only knows how to play games, Marlo is also worthy of criticism because she has lost the ego that a woman should have.
20 is great and then 30 is around the corner like a 5 am garbage truck in the morning.
It is already a difficult thing to be born as a human being. In this case, why not live open-mindedly and calmly, and why not live happily and joyfully? All beings are suffering, so you should try your best to make yourself laugh. Smile and suffer and be an optimistic realist. Know how to dress yourself up, know how to manage yourself, know how to take care of yourself, know how to take care of yourself, and know how to love someone and how not to hurt yourself. Don't seek wealth and honor, but must be self-sufficient and live a well-off material life; do not seek beauty, but must have talent and temperament. If you treat yourself kindly and life kindly, then life will treat you kindly in the opposite direction. This is the force and reaction force of the scientific world force, and it is also the contribution and feedback in real life.
Women, be a little selfish and live for yourself, why not? Since you are a human, you can also stand on the ground and be an independent individual.
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