I vaguely remember that when the baby was just born, some of our mothers (who had babies around the same time) formed a group and kept complaining about our husbands. This group was called a "cult group" by my Hani. God knows how much we can talk about, the hard work of being a mother, abnormal sensitivity, vulnerability, and helplessness, all want to find a catharsis to release. Just like what the mother in "Tully" went through, all mothers should be able to feel the same way.
"Women are weak, but mothers are strong." It's not a lie. Charlize Theron plays Mario, a 40-year-old mother with three children, the youngest of whom was born. It's hard to imagine a world with 3 children when we feel dark when we have a baby. She suffered from postpartum depression once when she gave birth to her second child. It is unknown what kind of courage allowed her to give birth to her youngest daughter. Before her daughter was born, she went to school with her pregnant belly to deal with her son's emotional out-of-control problem. After her daughter was born, she was woken up by crying every night. Just after she was working here, she accidentally spilled the milk she had just expressed on the table. land. Enduring the hardship of breastfeeding, Mario carried the baby and continued to go to the school to communicate with the principal about his son's education. Mario's husband, like most of us, kisses before get off work, teases the baby after work, and plays games in bed at night. Facing his exhausted wife, the husband is more incomprehensible, or even disgusted with her out-of-shape figure. Mario's spirit was on the verge of collapse, but she managed to hold on in another way. Everything seems to be getting better, but there are some hidden secrets.
Some people say that this movie is like an adult version of "Juno", like a sister of "Teen", which makes us feel the cute and terrible growing up. In fact, she is also very similar to the female version of "Fight Club", but her mother's topic selection makes people feel the fragility and strength of life. In fact, it is recommended that couples who have given birth to a baby watch together, and each should be able to see their own shadows. It's a pity that I found that after giving birth, I didn't have time to watch a whole movie, let alone watch a whole movie together.
The core feeling after watching this film is loneliness. It's not sad, it's just a sudden realization that life can only be oneself. Although we are destined to live in the midst of countless others, no one can fully communicate with or depend on others. All we can look up to is ourselves. We can only depend on ourselves, and when our hopes are placed on others, we are not ourselves. It's the body, it's a split-off of another self, but it's not the id. To live, you can only find your true self, face her, and coexist with it.
Everyone will feel differently after watching "Tully". Some people think her future is bright, some people think it's endless darkness. Although I agree more with the latter in my heart, I hope it is good. Hemingway said that the world is beautiful and worth fighting for. I don't need to fight for the world, I think everyone should fight for themselves, so I have to live a little harder.
Immediately my 30 will come like a garbage truck at 5am. I hope that in 2019, we will be gentle and strong.
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