The choice of writing the film "Love in the Big River" in the final thesis seems to be both unexpected and expected. I don’t have any siblings, so I can’t understand the sibling relationship of “eldest brother is like a father”; I also lived in a city as a child, and I have never had any intersection with any field or any river, so I shouldn’t have much emotional resonance. But it seems like I knew halfway through the semester: this is the last book I'm going to write. "Why are the people who need help most unwilling to be helped?" This line comes up every now and then. For me, Norman, the unconventional eldest brother, is me, and Paul, the rebellious and rambunctious brother, is me, "He's not "funny", the girl he liked said this, turned around and met Paul driving from the sunset, and he could easily chat and laugh with him. Norman seems to be destined to fall in love with such a wanton person, maybe he has also been worried , Are Jessie and Paul, who have no fear of racing on the railway, a more suitable pair? But why don't the younger brother not envy the elder brother, after witnessing the step by step, the elder brother An An steadily became a professor, proposed a successful marriage, and is about to have My own business and family, but I still seem to carelessly wander around the casino and have a lot of debt. When the two of them went fishing together, they watched my brother catch a few big fish and I could only be impetuous. Why not? I lament that my brother has achieved such a harvest in his life, but he is still empty-handed. Many people can't understand why his brother has fallen. Some people say that his achievements have never been recognized by his father, and some people say that his ideal as a fisherman A profession that does not exist in the world. In my opinion, neither, Paul's free will determine his outcome. People who live as they want are always enviable, but because they are too arbitrary, they don't care about too many things, like rushing Just like going down a waterfall, you don’t think about the consequences and don’t care about any consequences, so it’s easier to let yourself go to indulgence step by step. People who are too free will probably end up rarely. Most people who indulge are soberly aware of their indulgence, but because of their self-indulgence In terms of the consequences, they don't care much, but most of them want others to care, so they are cautiously exposed in front of others, eager for others to hear the small help, and add restraints to the unstoppable decline. Therefore, the younger brother faces Jessie who is addicted to pleasure. The older brother said "maybe he accepts someone who is willing to help him", but the only person who actually wants to be helped is himself. To me, this kind of disclosure is like the phrase "Macondo is raining" in "One Hundred Years of Solitude", it is Temptation and unspeakable self-disclosure, but in the end Norman failed to really enter into his brother's heart, and Paul inevitably walked towards his own end step by step. People need help, but we can't help. Because we don't know what we can give, or what we have to give. The people closest to us are often the least like us. Even if we don't fully understand him, we can love him wholeheartedly. "This sentence is used by many people to understand family affection. Relatives are often the people who are closest to each other and who don't know each other the least. We may never really get close to the hearts of our relatives because of our affection, and we cannot give the most timely help. But we can still accept their mistakes, their failures, and love them with all our heart. But I prefer to use this sentence to reconcile with myself. This semester I have done a lot of things that are not out of my own heart, in order to ease a certain emotion, and are incomprehensible in the eyes of most people. The "normal" life is gradually drifting away, and it is not that they have not talked to others, but unfortunately, most people can only see the evil side of things, but can't see the motivation behind the evil. I can't force my friends to empathize with me, let alone get them to do me any favors, but I still thank them for accepting things like this as a part of me, even if I can't understand it, it hasn't changed a single bit of love for me, maybe it's Intimacy I learned from this movie.
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