Surprisingly, I saw elements of postpartum anxiety in a cartoon.
Mike doesn't hate or like children, but this one is different, it's his child... The film begins to describe his anxiety quickly, until he meets Uncle Lu, I want to write that Mike is the key factor in getting out of postpartum anxiety.
(1) Expanding one's own ability to take care of him : During the process of saving Xiaomian, under the guidance of Uncle Lu, Mike's survivability has been greatly expanded. Only when we are more capable can we feel more at ease. The process of raising a baby is also the same. Facing the helplessness of a newborn, we also need the presence of Uncle Lu to help us expand our parenting capabilities and help us have the ability to take care of the baby in most cases. PS: Uncle Lu can be parents, family members, neighbors, friends, books, videos...
(2) Collaborate with others to rebuild trust : In the process of jointly rescuing the little tiger, Mike and his partners have established good trust in this process. When you start defending something and fight side by side with your partners, trust begins to be re-established. Long Yingtai once said that happiness means that there is no need to be afraid all the time in life. No one understands the result of the process of rescuing the little tiger, and it is even full of thrills. Planned but expected. In the process of growing up, a baby needs a lot of outside assistance. You need elders to take care of the baby in your work. The baby learns to meet his teachers and classmates along the way. Along the way, many unsatisfactory things will still happen, but trust can help you better. Just a little bit better...
(3) Give time to time : When the child ran out of kindergarten and kissed Michael and said my dog, that child is growing up, and time will slowly heal. At the beginning of the film, Mike will be frightened by a cloud of fog. But as they grow up with their experiences, they can walk through the white fog together. This is the power of time. The little baby starts to roll over, get up, toddler, babble... Every step will heal you, give time to time, a power of faith that comes from anticipation and waiting for life.
(4) Gratitude and accompanying growth are also looking back at the time we forgot: that’s how we were raised by our parents, you forget, they don’t know how to express, and then this time you raise your children, one option is to turn a blind eye One of the choices is to feel the unspeakable years of your growing up, and be grateful to those who accompanied us along the way.
The relationship between time, the writing is a little rushed, and the unfinished parts are recommended to watch the movie.
Regarding more anxiety, whether it is life or employment, I have a very chicken soup. I hope you will return from a half-life and still be a teenager. We don’t know what will happen tomorrow, but you can believe in your own strain for no reason. ability. The movies that impress us are all the plots that have undergone changes but are in the dark, and we have no other choice, so it is a relatively good choice to live confidently and optimistically.
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