Feel the importance of affection

Greyson 2022-04-23 07:03:19

The beginning of the film is a bit depressing. When all relatives knew that the old man in the family, the grandmother in the film, was sick, they endured the pain. She also showed a very happy look in front of her grandmother. Everyone pretended to be confused, covered up all the sadness, and decided to weave a white lie for grandma to spend the rest of her life together. At this moment, time is the most important thing. When everyone learned that the old man was sick, they all rushed back from other places. In order to allow all their relatives to see the grandmother for the last time, they decided to use a fake wedding to deceive the grandmother. When the grandmother saw each relative happily, she had a happy smile on her face, but they were often behind her back. They were all crying bitterly, but the grandmother didn't know the purpose of the wedding. Before that, she went to the grave of her late wife, happily sharing the joy with her, and seriously said that she wanted her to bless her. The children's future work should be smooth, and the family should be happy. It all seemed so depressing. The film is a comedy that reflects the different values ​​and ideas brought about by the differences between Chinese and Western cultures. From their diets, their living customs and the differences in their language expressions, they all become the funny part of the play. But although it is a comedy, there is also a hint of depression in the happy process. Many of the shots during the film look so sentimental. Grandma always thought that her illness was not that serious, and she was still optimistic about the people around her. One of the clips in the film is that when Bili and her grandmother drove from the cemetery back to the small yard where she used to live, Bili wanted to look back at the place where she once lived, but her grandmother refused. She said that the buildings and houses in the past have long been demolished, and even the grandmother can't recognize it, and it has long since ceased to exist. Seeing this, I believe that most people think of grandma's illness. Because of grandma's illness, grandma, like that small yard, may be "tear down and cease to exist" at any time. In fact, this will bring a little sentimentality to the audience, because grandma doesn't know her own condition, so he can easily say this sentence. But it is more so-called that the speaker has no intention, and the listener has intention. We all think of another aspect of this phrase's existence. So this is a clip that hits our tears.

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  • Pierce 2022-03-27 09:01:13

    The most unrewarding film I have seen this year, except for the central idea that can be summed up in one sentence, neither expressing nor thinking, cliche is so boring, even the hypnotic function is lost, and I can only wait for the end with my eyes open.

  • Bertha 2021-12-28 08:02:14

    7 points, some places are especially American, even if they come to Changchun and speak Chinese, they are also very American. However, some emotional details are still very kind, very Chinese. There are very straightforward areas in the film. The accumulation of conceptual lines and some elements makes it weird. At the same time, there are very real details. It can be seen that the director draws from his own life. In short, this is a movie with a very unique perspective and a very fresh experience. It resembles itself and an outsider, which is very interesting. And, seeing this story that took place in Changchun is still very cordial. Some scenes are too familiar, especially the Hongqi Street area. The old man’s home is basically like my parents’ home. Also, why so many Changchun people like to go abroad or emigrate, both this generation and the previous generation have encountered too many examples of this, which is interesting.

The Farewell quotes

  • Billi: You know, one of the few good memories of my childhood were those summers at Nai Nais's. They had that garden, Ye Ye and I would catch dragonflies. And then we just moved to the States. Everything was different. Everyone was gone. And it was just the three of us.

    Jian: I know it was hard. It was hard for us too.

    Billi: I wanted to believe that it was a good thing, but all I saw was fear in your eyes. And I was confused and scared constantly because you never told me what was going on. And then Ye Ye died. You didn't even tell me he was sick. So it felt like he just vanished suddenly. And you wouldn't even let me go to his funeral.

    Jian: You were at school. We didn't want you to miss school. We did what we thought was best for you.

    Billi: But I never saw him again. And every time I came back to China, he just... he just wasn't there anymore. And I come back and he's just gone. The house is gone, A Die's gone, our Beijing home is gone and soon she'll be gone too.

  • Billi: [frustrated] Are you going to tell Nai Nai?

    Haiyan: I can't, Billi. I won't go against my family.

    Uncle Haibin: Billi, there are things you misunderstand. You guys moved to the West long ago. You think one's life belongs to oneself. But that's the difference between the East and the West. In the East, a person's life is part of a whole. Family. Society.

    Uncle Haibin: You want to tell Nai Nai the truth, because you're afraid to take the responsibility for her. Because it's too big of a burden. If you tell her, then you don't have to feel guilty. We're not telling Nai Nai because it's our duty to carry this emotional burden for her.