"Tokyo is really big, if you get separated, you may never see each other again."
"It's lonely to have no children, but if you have children, children will dislike you."
"Outsiders still have feelings, flesh and blood are not It should be like this."
Lost and cried bitterly, feeling the same. Decades later, time will get old and the story will remain the same.
Today's Beijing is like Tokyo at that time. Parents are helpless and children are struggling. Everyone knows: when parents are there, there is still a place in life; when parents are gone, there is only a return in life. But we also know that when outsiders want to gain a foothold in a big unfamiliar city, they have to give up more than family affection. Even if you are a once-in-a-lifetime son like the eldest son, in a big city, you are still worthless. This has nothing to do with the so-called growing up, the so-called lack of human touch after growing up, mostly because the mud Bodhisattva can't protect himself when he crosses the river, he is already tired of dealing with his own life, and he has only enough energy to deal with the current child's milk powder money, and he has already tried his best. But it hasn't gotten better.
As a child, I am ashamed of the difficulty of speaking out, and I would rather be said to be unfilial.
Most people see the pity of their parents. In fact, their parents are far stronger than we think. Like the parents in the movie, they are more tolerant and understanding, self-comforting and self-reliant, not demanding or reluctant. Birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal state of human beings; Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. The children of the year were taught by their parents' words and deeds, and the adults who have grown up today are tempered bit by bit by the society. Touching and rolling, it was an old woman and an old man again. The children are old, the parents are old. The older you get, the more young people can see through and dare to give up.
As a parent, you should no longer give advice to your children. A simple "I understand" and "you are busy" is a lifetime of knowing destiny.
Written here, Gao Xiaosong wrote the lyrics of "Life is more than just living in front of me", and the lyrics seem to convey such a language of life. Every family, every family, generation after generation, grows from a hopeful baby to a child to a teenager, and then to an ideal adult. Everyone spends their whole life doing their best, and from the faint sorrow revealed in life, there is a continuous hope that rises like a fortitude.
We say, this is called incense forever.
"Life is more than just a slap in the face"
Lyrics:
My mother is sitting in front of the door
humming flowers and the boy ,
although it has been many years since
I remember her tears streaming down
those gloomy times,
those perseverance and panic
in front of the parting door,
my mother looked at me and said that
life is not just about the things in front of me, but also poetry and In the distant fields,
you came to the world with bare hands, desperate to find the sea.
She sits across from me and bows her
head to say goodbye,
even though it's been many years , I
remember her tears
, those times of laughter,
those vows and dreams
, on the street where we parted,
she hugged me tightly and said that
life is not just about the things in front of you, but also poetry and fields in the distance ,
you came to the world with your bare hands, desperate to find that sea.
I walk away alone and there are more teenagers under my
knees Poetry and distant fields, you came to the world with your bare hands, desperate to find the sea.
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