Subjective judgment is likely to be an assumption. To Tibby, Bailey was just an annoyance from the beginning. People are always habitually judging what a stranger should be based on their so-called experience based on their appearance. Imposing their first impression is often the first An impression is not the real side. The deeper you know a person, the more complex you will discover. The comprehensive and real side of the person may be good or bad.
The whole movie is full of content but flattened out and it didn't make me cry until Tibby went to see Bailey in the hospital
More often I hide and I learn to avoid I don't want to dig too much but at least I don't make assumptions about what other people are. He's there. There are many possibilities. Each of them should be accepted. Maybe someone I meet. Less, maybe I choose to be pure, I am more willing to think about people in a good place, or because of this, I tend to avoid getting to know others deeply.
If Tibby hadn't gone to Bailey, she wouldn't have known her time was running out, and she wouldn't have been sad, and Bailey would always be just a little troublemaker in Tibby's eyes, even if she thought she was still alive
Talking to friends and analyzing the differences between each other will say that I am more "promiscuous". For every new person I meet, I start with a score of 100. I will make everyone better. I will do what I expect to do. I won't go bad and suspect its motives. In fact, I'm also afraid of being hurt. Like Lena, I hide my true self. Different people have different perceptions of the same person, even though I don't really know each other. Lena's grandma stopped me Lena and Kostos only interacted because of a "feud", and his views on a person were not static. Finally, after listening to Lena quietly, he only said "Go".
Starting from 100 points means that all the points will be deducted backwards. Very few can add more points. Just like the story of eating grapes, choosing to eat from sweet or sour is just a set of philosophy to convince yourself.
The whole movie tells a lot, but it's not messy, but it's delicate and smooth. For example, when Lena was crying on the shore, I felt that she was more sensitive and vulnerable than the others, but I was still stunned when I saw her cry. But after the narration came out, I could immediately understand and assume that she was crying in the room instead of at the beach. It would only make people think of Lin Daiyu's incompetence, and Lena took off her coat and jumped up. It explained the change in the character's inner activities very well.
In real life, when you reach a certain age, it is difficult for people to be influenced by each other. All will have "the person you like is not that person". It may be the person who likes him, or he may be the person you imagined. In short, like someone "Total person" (full person) means to accept a "full person", I am afraid that may be the eternal issue of the entire human race
Or talking to a friend about another guy Some friend says he's mean and another friend says you should keep your distance even if he's not mean and he reverts to a stranger and I'm stuck Swing in the middle, no matter what kind it is, it will bring harm to the other party. I also thought about letting go and getting to know people like Bridget. Let go and understand people without presupposing what results they will get. Dare to enjoy the moment. What I often talk about at this moment is "I I don't need it" Typical "avoidant" Friends say I don't really need it, I'm just avoiding it, I also tell my friends that it's because I may not be able to bear the consequences and avoid the shameful but useful consequences that others may be able to bear. no
Yes, I don’t want to deeply like someone, and I’m more reluctant to make enemies and friends. Saying that I meet too many people. I will quickly judge a person first, and then draw a line immediately if I don’t like it. But I don’t have such a clear line. I will too. It's easy to spot someone's flaws just by thinking that I don't need to be intimate with them, so I don't have to deliberately accept them, and I'm relieved at once, and I don't deliberately hate each other because of those flaws, those who don't seem to be suitable for dealing with me, too. I prefer to believe that maybe they also have a cute side in front of their friends, but I don't know it. I prefer to cherish limited fate and establish limited friendship. I try my best to make each other have only good memories in this limited space. I am also better at such "shallow" In the "shallow relationship", everyone pays more attention to each other's advantages, and they will ask for less and correspondingly lose less.
In fact, in the end, it is still selfish or timid or unwilling to give more. In fact, it is not easier than liking someone and hating someone. It's like Carmen trying to hate his father. In the end, the saddest thing is that I am moved by the other three sisters. Seeing through her thoughts and saying, "Parents can always screw things up", like "Why can't we leave?" Another way of saying that love is inclusiveness is that love doesn't care about gains and losses
Many times we are more willing to care about how much others have paid for us to decide how much we have to give. The other person’s contribution is the upper limit of our own contribution, and often feelings cannot clearly measure the gains and losses. If you love, you will naturally give a little more.
And what I may have lost is the ability to love
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