True love is in charge, do you need a paternity test? Is it to marry sweet love with the'my' child? Or'our' children, married to tormenting love?

Guadalupe 2022-01-05 08:01:14

From the first part of BJ's single diary in 2001 to the third part in 2016, the span is 15 years. In the past 15 years, the off-screen audiences have spent their own lives, perhaps also experiencing love, marriage, family, and career changes; while BJ and Mr. Darcy on the screen are going around in the same way. With this era, it is changing; whether it is on the screen or off the screen, one thing is the same, we are not who we were before; and because of this, if you persist in remembering the lost time, youth, mood, love and Time, then it will fall into clichés and fall into a kind of sadness of fallen leaves and burial flowers. Instead of obsessing with the past, it is better to smile at the wrinkles on your face, and calmly respond to the present and the present.

That's why, after watching BJ3, from the beginning to the end, there is an indescribable sense of sadness and depression.

I think how amazing the first BJ movie was back then! The success of BJ1 is that it is cleverly embedded in a sense of humor unique to British culture, telling a beautiful and romantic love story. Uncle Colin and Hugh Grant, with different styles, are both sexy, super male gods with a smile. And the chubby, chubby, smiling BJ is held in the moon by two male gods and stars. In the plot and atmosphere of the whole movie, BJ’s charm is so convincing that almost everyone can feel that she is Compared to the American model pole and the British legal elite, she is a wonderful woman and an excellent companion who is more worthy of a gentleman.

And the protagonist's halo that shines step by step, in the third part, it becomes a kind of tasteless, a kind of embarrassment and effort for charm and charm. Although BJ has retreated from the iconic chubby, with a figure that belongs to the British "middle class", but accompanied by a stiff smile, dull eyes, mottled acting skills, coupled with billboard from the British singer The bombardment of popular songs (I’m wondering why don’t you count Adele as well?), this classic love movie that was once arguably'Proud of UK' has become a hard-core entry into'something about UK' Advertising video. Once in the first part, BJ smoked a cigarette and walked through the joy and feelings of the Piccadilly Circus billboard easily. In the third part, there was nothing left. It even made me feel, from the first to the third, what a pathetic love and life BJ has gone through, where is her chic and overflowing? Where is her ease and confidence? . The BJ in the third part only left the skin paintings of the former BJ. The former BJ would naturally stretch his arms and open his arms to embrace the embarrassment of himself; and the current BJ also spread his arms, just afraid of his hands. Fear of feet, evasive eyes, pretentious, really embarrassing to the bones.

I think the third part is realistic, that is, BJ’s three good friends (two got married and had children, and one with his male friend was preparing to adopt a child), after BJ gave birth, they didn’t have the "perfect" Mr. Darcy. How much joy and congratulations in return. BJ and Mr. Darcy have been separated and combined for 15 years. If it were not for the birth of a child and the emergence of Jack as a strong competitor, Mr. Darcy would still not have a certain grievance in his heart, and completely opened up his love for BJ. Embrace. Therefore, Mr. Darcy is actually not'perfect', even very hateful (although Uncle Colin who plays him is undoubtedly perfect!). He admired the beauty of BJ's innocence, but did not properly cultivate and care, let this "innocent beauty" grow quietly and grow with himself. Don't say anything about Mr. Darcy. Marrying other women later is the reality of life, the symbol of free love in the West, and the portrayal of love coming into life, Bullshit. You hurriedly leave Darcy’s ex-wife, that is the woman who Darcy feels truly worthy of him: capable, beautiful, slender, with his own persistence and career beliefs (it is this belief that made them divorce eventually, Because Camilla is not willing to go back to China with Darcy). Darcy may love BJ, but this love is selfish and unequal. BJ admired Darcy, admiring his demeanor and demeanor in court, but he did not realize that this 15-year admiration extinguished the most precious light in his body. This light has been It shook Mr. Darcy's heart, but gradually, it became dispensable, and even extremely mismatched embarrassment. The Darcy in BJ’s eyes, not only did not change the slightest style, but was even more unique (Look at the third part, the uncle Colin in the lens, although he is old, but the charm is unstoppable, not only the lens loves Colin Uncle, it is Mr. Darcy who always looks like Xi Shi in BJ's eyes).

It can be said that the sorrow of BJ is the sorrow of the nympho, and the sorrow of the female nympho. 'Nantho', under certain moments and conditions, contributes to physical and mental health. But if you build your entire marriage and your life on a'nympho', it will harm others and yourself.

The third film seems to work hard to continue the essence of the first. At that time, London was not too crowded, there were not many immigrants, and the technology was not so advanced. It was necessary to keep a diary for expressing sentiments. At this time in London, the times are changing, technology is advancing, and the diary is written on the Ipad. At that time, the circle of friends came from fxxk, fxxk went to chat, and drove to France if they didn’t agree. At this time, the circle of friends, the overlapping center of gravity from unreliable youth, became the children of the family. Fxxk came to fxxk without any barriers, and turned into a puppet joke in front of the child. BJ's friends have also become friends with similar single experiences at work. This is another realism of this movie: in good friends, with the change of time and life, there is less and less intersection with each other, and it is difficult to restore the more and more parallel trajectory of no matter how much it used to be.

So, it's okay to pay tribute to feelings, but time, friends, and love can't go back. This is so sad, but this is life. BJ3 might as well tell a storyline in a down-to-earth manner, removing the halo for the protagonist and removing those funny for the sake of comedy; what if BJ is no longer the heart of British men, women and children as the age grows? Let's take off the curse of'just because who you are' 15 years ago calmly and tell the audience an honest story: 7 years can be vicissitudes of life, let alone 15 years? (It's like from'before sunrise' to'before sunset', the same narrative style, the same protagonist, frank and candid communication and miss each other's life, there can still be lovers who will eventually become family members, non-human can be changed).

This honest story line actually has many themes to express. For example, how BJ understands the difficulty of marriage as a promise in the 15 years of love entangled with the "perfect" Mr. Darcy, the importance of being evenly matched in the spiritual world and material life, and self-awakening without losing innocence, and The meaning of children to women, the balance between career and self-survival (supply and clothing). The best ending is not that BJ is complacent in the end when two men compete for the child in her stomach (satisfied with their own charm?), but understands that even if there are more men pursuing, they can’t Give up your whole body and mind, let alone deliver it with your own children? Everything may be in the mirror, I am true, my child is true, and what I have the ability to grasp is true.

Be more optimistic, maybe the ending can be like this: true love arrives, no paternity test is needed; I can take my child and marry my love. This is the maximum female freedom, but the conditions to support this freedom There are too many, and the risks are great. They are definitely not something most women can bear, and they are definitely not something most male friends can accept, regardless of national boundaries. Although the final ending of the third part, BJ still vaguely took the'our' children, and married for many years of tormenting love.

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  • Mark: You can do this. You can. We can do it together. Just think what life's thrown at you already. You've turned disasters into triumphs with your sheer, joyful, indefatigable, infectuous lust for life. You've managed this entire pregnancy almost entirely on your own, despite a lunatic mother, repressed men, and boyfriends who don't deserve you.

  • Dr. Rawlings: "Think the pain away." You're pushing and entire human being out of your vagina. I'd like to see them thinking it away.