At the beginning, the encounter with Tom was very similar<
Out of jealousy and shameless bad intentions, one of Jane's admirers sent Tom's uncle an anonymous letter about Jane's unwarranted misdeeds. As a result, the uncle didn't agree with the marriage. Love slumps into despair.
I have always despised such admirers. From a popular point of view, it means that they do not really love that person, otherwise they should let him/her go and let him/her pursue their own happiness knowing that they do not like them. I think love should be 100% pure and absolute, how can I bear the reality that the person I love deeply does not love me 100%? Such love, even if it is obtained, can it be truly happy? ! Some people say that there is always a person in love who loves deeper, I don't know, maybe, it should be difficult to have equality in the world. In this way, there should be no pure and absolute things in the world. Isn't 100% love a luxury? Is this true, don't want to believe, don't want to believe, maybe I'm too naive, maybe I'm an ideal perfectionist / perfect idealist / idealist + perfectionist / perfectionist + idealist… …
Jane returned home disheartened, and soon heard the news of Tom's engagement. Why so quickly? She had lost hope in Tom. Tom can't stand life without Jane, so he finds Jane and offers to run away with her. Jane was overjoyed and desperately followed Tom into an early morning carriage heading for London. The carriage was stuck in the mud on the road, Tom helped to push the cart, Jane accidentally saw a letter written by Tom's mother to Tom, thanking Tom for sharing the allowance his uncle gave him with his family. At this time, Jane suddenly realized that Tom was under such great pressure to elope with her. Tom's source of living depends entirely on the allowance given by his uncle who is a judge. He also has to support his parents and many brothers and sisters. Elopement means With nothing left, many people's lives will be lost from now on. Sense or Sensibility? After a desperate struggle with emotion, reason finally overcomes emotion, because even if there is love between two people, this love will gradually fade away its original gorgeous color and dazzling in endless regret and self-blame. brilliance. Goodbye, Tom, maybe forever. Jane took the carriage back to Hampshire and Tom watched her go.
Love is limited by money and status, oppressed by the world and guided by public opinion. What a helpless and sad era, innocent love has become an innocent victim. . What's better than ancient China is that women can refuse to propose marriage. Although doing so is very detrimental to themselves and their families, at least they still have this freedom and right. Poor ancient Chinese women, they don't even have this right, the life of their parents , The matchmaker's words, even if you don't dare to disobey, you can only die. .
When faced with a choice between Sense and Sensibility, both those who take Sense and those who take Sensibility are worthy of admiration. The former may have to bear internal and external pressure and condemnation all their lives, but they finally choose the life they want. Although they will pay a huge price for it, they are happy and lucky, and they are tenacious, tenacious, and brave. Cheers to the will! This is a victory of the will. The latter is also great. They don't want to base their happiness on the pain of others, especially their family members. They don't want to regret their lover's future, reputation and career. They finally reluctantly gave up this relationship, and they may have given up on themselves. A lifetime of happiness. Cheers to their deep sanity and conscientiousness! It is also a victory of the will.
Years later, Jane's <
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