A man who lost his wife in a car accident did not have the slightest grief. He concluded that he did not love his wife.
But how should we examine our feelings and make sure that it is 100% loyal to us.
The protagonist who couldn't squeeze his tears turned around and turned into a chattering, looking back on the story with his wife through a letter of complaint, his tone was plain and not sad, but a bit confusing. This sounds a bit like the original self, desperately denying his love for his ex, and always telling others about him, but trying to separate himself from him. "Really, I don't think about him or love him, it's not, I just happen to have something about him worth sharing."
Davis kept saying that he didn't love his wife, but he always saw his wife in the misty bathroom. Silhouette. At the beach where his wife was most loved during his lifetime, the figure of his wife flashed back in his mind. Even when lying on the sofa in a daze, he thought of his wife's daily gentleness and amusement. But these moments of memories happened so quietly, without background music, frame after frame changed with Davis's eyes opening and closing.
The German salted pork knuckle on the menu, he would definitely order this if he was there; the IKEA carpet, he would definitely say it was good if he was there, although I would object to saying that it was just a thing full of microbes without any practical effect; Those things that make people thunderous, if he is there, he will definitely deal with it in another way...
"If this is not love, then there is no sorrow."
Boyfriend L said, love starts from missing. Yeah? Isn't it? "Close your eyes who do you miss the most."
"Then why marry her." "easy, simple"
"If you don't love this person, why should you stay with him for so long?" "Because he treats me very well." Because this person is handy. Once chatting with W, he said that human beings are actually very arrogant, self-conscious creatures. He thinks that there is only oneself and omnipotence between heaven and earth. He tries his best to find answers to everything. When he encounters unexplainable things, he will panic. ,anxiety. Why do we fall in love with this person, why do we want to be with this person. Maybe we can give a hundred answers, but is this question really solvable? I remembered watching the show a long time ago. Someone asked Yu Dan why he liked listening to Jay Chou’s songs. Yu Dan said, I can tell you the reason, but all the reasons I told you are not true. As soon as something is said, the taste changes. Road to Road, very Avenue. "There are many types of troubles and obstacles. I am obsessed with the root and cause troubles. If you don't cling to me, there will be no troubles."
"Repairing the human heart, is like repairing an automobile. Just examine everything. Then you can put it all back together. Do you know why there is no extra charge for medical examinations in public hospitals? Because these physical examinations are to assist the doctor in the diagnosis, not all of them are necessary. If there is a genius doctor who can see the crux of the matter at a glance, why bother with these cumbersome examinations. It is precisely because we do not know the problem that we have to investigate one by one. Although the actor seems to be living a life that is the same as usual, he begins to pay attention to the life that he has not paid much attention to before, the dripping refrigerator, the flashing light bulb, and the creaking toilet door. He began to want to know how everything works, brand new coffee machines, old cabinet clocks. From the problematic to the okay, he wanted to tear down everything in his life. When others envied his house, he said that it was just the outer shell of his failed marriage. He didn't know where the problem was, so he had to destroy all these things in the most direct and rude way. Do not break or stand.
Until one day, he discovered a little secret of his wife. Instead, he seemed to finally be relieved. Stand after breaking.
He can't respond to his wife's love, because this love is overwhelming to him, imbalanced in giving and receiving. I also remembered the words in "Unfortunate Matsuko's Life", "The value of a person is not what he gets, but what he contributes." Davis finally cried and said to his father-in-law, I love her, I still think Do something for her. His feelings finally found the corresponding outlet. The carousel by the sea, a warm scene.
In the end, after thinking about it, I would like to say one more thing. Even if I know that if I say more, it will affect the integrity of this article, but if I don't say it, it will affect the integrity of my thinking. In the movie, there are many times when the leading actor wakes up at 5:30 in the morning, but in the last scene, it is shown at 7:30. Is this a boring shot, too naive boy! Actually, the director is clearly criticizing the evil capitalism for profit, at the expense of sleep time, and turning flesh and blood into intelligent machines. The emphasis is on the importance of sleep for perception-lack of sleep can make people numb. In fact, this is the focus of the whole movie. Otherwise, do you really think the hero's heart was eaten by a gypsy moth?
Cherish sleep, cherish the person in front of you.
over.
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