A true warrior dares to face the bleak life-The true meaning of happiness in the movie "ELLE"

Leanna 2022-10-28 00:19:19

This show is my latest love. Taste carefully, almost every scene is carved, it can be called a classic.

Probably the plot is: the heroine has experienced the most extreme original family, and also experienced the scorching world of society. She knew that even if the murderer's daughter was raped, she couldn't ask the police, it would attract journalists and social prejudice. She finds troublesome to solve and investigate the story by herself.

Explain the background.

The heroine's father is a Catholic father who is obsessed. Because he wants to draw a cross on the head of the children around him, the neighbors around him will not let him, and hatred arises in his heart. Door to door knocking and killing neighbors. The incident shocked the entire state at the time.

The heroine was only 10 years old at the time. His father came home covered in blood after killing people. He told the heroine that he was going to burn the whole house down, presumably to wash away his sins. Clothes, curtains. The heroine was brainwashed by her father's Catholic beliefs, and felt that her father was doing something sacred, so she also helped to burn it. Halfway through the fire, the police came and took his dad away. Then there was a photo of a 10-year-old girl wearing underwear, holding a doll covered in dust, with empty eyes.

Everyone's assessment of the murderer's daughter was mixed, and they all suspected that the little girl was the one who killed with her father and then set fire there together. Because there was no fear in this little girl's eyes, only emptiness.

The heroine's mother was a nurse at the time. When she was a child, her mother often ignored her and just wanted to have fun.

The police and reporters did not play a role in protecting the little girl in this matter. They just came to report the incident, and they didn't think that the little girl was actually a victim of PUA since childhood. They just judge and prejudice that the little girl's nature is the same as her father.

The beginning of the story is that the heroine is nearly 50 years old, and the children are all grown ups. One day I was beaten by a masked man who broke into my home, then raped and ran away. She got up calmly and didn't call the police. She just swept the floor gently, disposed of the broken vases and cups, and took a shower to wash off the blood. Her child, a big guy who looked to be in his 20s, came to see her. Seeing the wound on her head, she asked her what was wrong, and she also casually pointed to the bicycle next to her and said, "Oh, I fell while riding a bicycle. The child looked innocent and had no doubts, and then told her that his new job was good. She asked what it was, and he said it was a new job, but the promotion was very fast. The smart heroine got it right away, how can a new job be promoted so quickly, Q: A job like McDonald's? He defaults.

He said he wanted to rent a bigger house with his girlfriend who was about to give birth. She asked him, how much money do you need? I can lend you. He said alertly, I don't want your money, I just want your guarantee, borrow money from the bank. The hostess said generously, I will pay you the rent for the first three months, but I have to see the house to decide. The boy readily accepted. It can be seen that the heroine loves this boy very much, but she is also afraid that the boy will spend money indiscriminately. She looked at a house with the boy, and the boy's girlfriend was there. In order to prove that she and the boy were really in love, the girlfriend kissed her in front of her face and tongue. The girlfriend used her son like a tool, and didn't even care that she almost cut the boy's hand when she used the ruler. The hostess asked the little girlfriend, why do you rent such a big house, isn't the house you liked before very good. The little girlfriend shouted, I didn't ask for your money, we can earn it ourselves. The child has not yet been born, and they have no money to support them. They still live in such an expensive house, and the two of them have no good jobs. Girls are in the arts. Has a big temper and yells at the heroine.

Moving on to my son's girlfriend, she looks like a nervous drama queen who likes emotional manipulation. On the day of delivery, the son's black friend, ex-husband, and mistress all went to the hospital to wait for a new life. As a result, a black child was born. So ironic. But the son is very happy to want to raise this child. Even a fool can see that it is not his own child, but the son can't. That's it, as a high-IQ businessman, a well-known game producer, and the owner of a successful start-up company, the female protagonist gave birth to a son who can't see clearly and lose his brain. Her ex-husband is not a loser, he is a university professor and a writer. This man has a good level of empathy. When he learned that the heroine was raped at home, he silently went to her house to squat downstairs. It's just that he has no business acumen and can't come up with any idea to make money, but he wants to do something in her company's game design. Just a thoughtful literary man who has no strength but is beyond his own power. That's why even after the divorce, the heroine still misses him.

This is the life of the heroine, the father is perverted, the mother often ignores and is not responsible, the ex-husband is a coward without knowing it, and he gave birth to a son without inheriting his own genes. It's unfortunate enough to have a family of origin, leaving no warmth except for the shadows. The fruit of his new family is still a mediocre fool. She was unfortunately raped at home, but she couldn't call the police, because she couldn't ask the police for something, because she was already famous for her 10-year-old father, and he took on the debt of the previous generation for the evil of human nature that did not belong to her. the cost of. Society has tinkered with her.

You say how unfair God is to her, and all of your dearest relatives have nothing to do but add burdens and shadows to themselves. But the heroine continues her life with high IQ. Someone in the company questioned her professionalism, and she went back without changing her face. Someone in the company used her as a small film, she silently investigated who it was, and after the investigation found that it was just a boring technical otaku, she calmly asked him to take off his pants, she just wanted to confirm whether this person's dick committed a crime against her. Although the masked black man can't see his face, she still knows how to remember the dick in that situation. How calm and high-IQ this is.

Of course, in the end, it turned out that it was not an employee of the company. However, she found that a pair of beautiful neighbors were very concerned about her affairs, especially the boy or a handsome consulting company. He had a crush on this neighbor. But when the boy came to help him close the window, there was a good chance of cheating, but the boy didn't seize the opportunity and let it stop abruptly. The heroine became suspicious, but one night later, the heroine was broken into and raped by a masked man. This time, the heroine was fully prepared, pierced his hand with scissors, and took off his headgear, It turned out to be her handsome neighbor, and she was so angry that she made him go away. The next morning, while picking up the newspaper at the door, the handsome neighbor saw her and drove to work without changing his face. No sorry expressions. The heroine was calm on the surface, as if nothing had happened, and continued to be friends with the neighbors. Even going to his house and having sex with the neighbors, children who have been abused since childhood, subconsciously used to find love in pain, and have a tendency to tremble sexually. That's why in the neighbor's house, there is that scene of red orgasm that everyone talks about.

But the heroine's heart is calm, she can distinguish what sin is and what is love. She continued to treat her neighbor as if nothing had happened and invited him to her party, asking him to take her home. She gave her son the car key, and she knew that he would go to her house in a while. And the neighbors will definitely play the rapist and come to her house to rape her. The son is a kind and impulsive good son, although a little silly. When the son broke the head of the handsome neighbor without hesitation, the overjoyed eyes couldn't hide the inner peace. She has come to real relief. Neighbors thought it was cos, and asked a question before dying: why?

There can be a reason, because you are sinning, you are hurting, that is not cos, not the tenderness that the heroine wants.

Others say that the heroine is cold and knows how to use men. In fact, it is not. She just understands the good and evil of everyone, the responsibility they should take, giving money to the mother and the son, and caring, she does it all. But for their ridiculousness and stupidity, she also knew the boundaries of tolerance. When her mother unknowingly wanted to get married in her later years, she laughed without scruples. For her son's insistence on raising other people's children, she also wanted him to wake up. In the final episode, the heroine finds that the son does not love his girlfriend, but just wants her child to be his own child to find the feeling of being depended on and valued by the child. In fact, it is the compensation mentality of being a fool who has not been valued in society all his life.

For the harm caused by the evil of other people's human nature, she also sees it like a god, and she deals with them bravely, without cowardice, connivance, or the kindness of women. That's the real sensible thing to do, my friends.

A true warrior who dares to face the bleak life. Men and women alike. Women are already weaker than men, and we are always harassed and hurt by men so easily.

It is difficult to face evil in human nature without fear. The real warrior is the one who can control them. The murderer's father is sinful. She told him with words and actions that you hurt me when I was young, and you left me with a shadow. You should go to hell. My mother is not very responsible. I will take responsibility for you and buy a house for you to live in, but you can't marry a little white face for sex when you are old, so I will increase the legal burden and risk. You have taken away the rights of parents or children, and you cannot fail to fulfill your obligations. If you do not fulfill your obligations, I can also condemn you and let you know the boundaries.

As a person, as a parent, as a child, and in any role, you must know your rights and obligations. Many parents of original families hurt their children by taking away the parents' power, but they have not fulfilled their obligations to protect their children's physical and mental health. This is a powerless violation and abuse of children who are defenseless and dependent on them to live.

People's pain, the biggest from the interpersonal relationship. You think you are poor, others don't play with you, you think you are weak, and others don't respect you. You are wrong, whatever level of ability God has created, you should be respected. The reason for not being respected is not that, but that the other party is simply a snobby and selfish villain. Even if you get money and status, you don't get love because the relationship you care about is with these snobs. All you have to do is set boundaries, stay away from villains, and build worthy relationships to get love. Your happiness comes from friends and relatives who know how to respect, parents and sons have no choice, you can also surround yourself with close friends who understand and respect.

In the last article, I compared Yang Mi and Qi Wei to talk about this issue. What really determines the quality of a person's life is the intimacy, the level of love you feel. The hostess did a good job.

Although the heroine is asking for each of these people in his intimate relationship, she has established her trusted business partner, which is her best friend. Even when her husband had a relationship with her, her friends still trusted and stood by her. Why, not because of the superficial cognition in some film critics that the heroine understands PUA. Rather, the friend the heroine found understands her and is sensible. Who is a friend's husband? It's a man who only wants to vent himself with her when he experiences rape, or when he has a lame leg in a car accident. Her good friend couldn't get used to this kind of person who lacked empathy for a long time, and found that cheating was only the last straw. A sensible woman knows that in a relationship, she should choose the heroine or her husband. Some popular film critics are so irresponsible and unreasonable, and they get so many likes, it is also outrageous.

In one's life, one confidant is enough. It shows that there are not many people who really understand themselves. Seeing your vulnerability, they can tolerate it and protect it. Manage such relatives and friends. You can't choose relatives, but friends can. A true warrior has experienced the evil of human nature and is riddled with holes in his heart. My heart is still as calm as the moon, and I dare to give and embrace the truth.

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Elle quotes

  • Richard: Struggling to get by builds character.

    Michèle Leblanc: Trouble is, he's dating a psycho... The wacko won't tolerate struggling.

    Richard: Psycho's the word. Often though, that kind of woman is good in bed.

    Michèle Leblanc: What does that mean, "good in bed"? I never knew.

  • Michèle Leblanc: Richard, would you say I'm tight for a woman my age?

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