Today, I watched an old movie, Peach Deal.
In fact, the story is very simple. The millionaire took a fancy to your young and beautiful wife and gave you one million dollars to sleep with her for one night. Would you like to?
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When you consider whether to let a third party into the marriage, that is the beginning of the collapse of the marriage
The poor couple, because of the mortgage debt, decided to go to the casino to give it a try. At this time, the millionaire who accidentally met, fell in love with his young and beautiful wife.
In fact, the whole process is also very simple, gentleman charm millionaires, always know how to help. How to approach them in a moderate manner, and put forward the idea of a million sleep a night, not to talk to other people's wives secretly, but to say it in front of the young couple at the right time. "This is true, not a joke, you should think about it seriously."
That night, the young couple couldn't sleep, tossing and turning in bed, thinking about how to spend the million. Both parties feel that our relationship is very solid, and the indestructible relationship will not destroy our seven-year relationship because of this one night.
When they were each considering the possibility of this happening, in fact, the marriage had collapsed.
We always think that we have the ability to control the third party, that we can properly handle the relationship between the three, and that we will not be discovered, and even if we are discovered, we will not be abandoned by the original partner. enter the house.
Not rejecting Xiaosan's offer is like knocking down the first domino, and all subsequent cards will follow.
Two people who love each other can't forget what each other has done, and they can't forget that you were willing to share your decision with others at that time. Can't forget each other and the partner of the affair, the happy time they had together.
I think the director handled the deal night very well, stopping at the millionaire and the heroine kissing and no more narration.
In fact, for the future life, how the real relationship with the third party is not important. The important thing is how to get along with the two people who have already had a crack in their marriage in the future.
The reason why you consider the entry of a third party is the beginning of the collapse of the marriage, precisely because once this idea enters your mind, you will escape rather than solve the problem of marriage, and gradually the third party will become a safe haven for thinking. The more and more clear and beautified in the mind, one day the imagination will become reality.
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It wasn't feelings that was destroyed this night, it was trust
The heroine may have had a hunch, and after this night, the relationship between the two will not go back.
So she refused at first, but she just saw her husband's heart and knew that he wanted a million, and she didn't hate the rich gentleman very much, so she agreed with half a push.
But after everyone agreed not to mention this night, did you really not mention it?
NO!
This night is the thorn in the throat, and every time you eat after that, you will pass through it, reminding you of the existence of this night. Unless the marriage ceases to continue, unless the relationship between the two ceases to flow, this thorn will always exist. At the time, you could say nothing, but later you could say that you wanted to mention it, and then went to ask what happened that night.
The decisions made together at that time have become your unilateral decisions. The person who abandons the marriage becomes you.
Once the hint of being attracted to a millionaire at the time is believed, the trust is difficult to continue.
I don't believe you, became a mantra.
Every word he said was like a lie. He went out for a long time today and didn't come home. Did he go to see the mistress? The way he called on the phone was different from before... Distrust is like a bottle with cracks, no more Can't hold anything, can only watch the water in the bottle slip away.
Ha ha. Reality is so ridiculous. Never deceive yourself and say that you can overcome some hurdles. When you don't slogan that you must be able to overcome it, you can jump out of the daze.
Extramarital affairs movies such as infidelity, day face, marriage interlude, etc., will focus on the side who found out that the partner is cheating, the look on the face of listening to the partner's words, the face full of doubt and sneer, and the helplessness and heartbreak of watching the other side lie. . It may be the reason why the marriage can no longer continue.
When you can no longer trust someone, the more you love them, the more painful it will be to be around them.
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I really want to be together, find myself first
Trust destroys not only the marriage, but also myself. My life is messed up, I can't concentrate at work, I have a bad temper and become depressed and angry, and I don't look like I used to be.
How can you start a new relationship in such a state?
When david starts to cheer up, get rid of his previous bad habits, and get back to his dreams down-to-earth, and find his true self, is the time to start a new relationship.
In the end, david went to diana to accept her request for divorce. At this time, diana was dressed as a lady beside the millionaire, but david looked at her calmly, without doubt or resentment, not even jealous or angry. It's because david found himself in the process of separation. It can also jump out of the relationship and look at the problems that happened between them.
The words he said to diana also showed that he had understood that the marriage that had been invaded by a third party was not about forgetting what the other party had done, but forgive and forgiveness. In the past, we have to forgive everyone that they are ordinary people, and there are times when they make mistakes.
Accept that she is not a perfect person and this marriage is not a perfect marriage, but I still want to be with her.
This process is very painful and requires strong perseverance and love to do it. Otherwise, you will only drag yourself into the abyss again, feel sorry for yourself in marriage every day, spend your life and torture each other.
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third party in marriage.
May be, a beautiful and interesting lover
May be, an excellent and rich object
Possibly, a rambunctious elder
Likely, a colorful phone
And whether or not to consider letting a third party into the marriage requires your own judgment.
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