When it comes to love, the five encounters in seven years are not about seeing each other and hating early, but waiting for the ending

Moshe 2022-04-21 09:02:42

I like simple and light comedy.

The same plot, handsome men and beautiful women can be together in the end no matter how they die, and the best friends in the play and girlfriends assist, from the beginning to the final reunion. But how to impress people in the same way, this tests the director's skill.

Over and over again, watching those beautiful and false encounters, misunderstandings, alienation, misunderstandings, rushing to embrace each other, kissing affectionately, and following them together to overcome the obstacles arranged by the director one by one, and finally let out a long sigh of happiness, The heart that was carried all the way down was put down steadily. When I gradually feel that my strong heart is less moved, such a love fairy tale can have the ability to imagine before you wait for the prince to come.

In contrast to the reality, often men and women secretly love each other for several years, but they have never been together for various reasons.

The reason for this is that either one party kills and does not say anything, the other party pretends to be stupid, or when one party confesses, the other party is offline, or when I like you, you don't like me, and when you like me, I already have a partner.

The simple and relaxed romantic comedies created because of "accidents" one by one are what we most want to see outside the hardships of life.

And the film "Meet and Hate Early" that I'm introducing to you today , although it basically does not deviate from the routine, has some new ideas in the old routine. It convinces you that if you don't get together in the end, then he's definitely not the right person for you.

The male and female protagonists have experienced five encounters in seven years.

The first time, the male protagonist was still a stunned, messy long hair that was ugly and terrible; the female protagonist was a punk fan, with big shoes, black nail polish, short hair, smoking, and a complete template of a bad girl. The meeting place is at the airport. Among thousands of people, in the endless wilderness of thousands of years, there is no one step earlier, and no one step later, just happened to meet.

They parted ways after an "airplane shock". I think only girls with that shape can do such a glorious feat. So after the "one-off", they each returned to their own trajectory. In real life, even if we used to be close to each other, we may forget each other in the rivers and lakes like this. He pretended to be a hero and left a phone call to her.

But four years later, she was in desperate need of a childcare after falling out of love on New Year's Eve, so she opened her memory to find the phone number book and made an appointment.

So we meet again, his hair is cut short and her hair is long. Before the New Year's bell rang, they lost each other. When the ten numbers were counting down, she was alone in the crowd of hugging couples, watching her old boyfriend hug someone else. Kiss deeply. Fortunately, it was in time.

Then, the guys who are developing their careers will leave the city the next day, and the reality is like a rolling torrent pushing each other forward. Until two years later, the male protagonist who broke up with his girlfriend traveled 400 miles away from the two cities to find the female protagonist to pour out his heart.

The two of them drove together, sang wildly all the way, hugged tightly in front of the camera in the national park in the middle of the night, touched their noses, and left a beautiful and ethereal scenery under the starry sky. But life did not continue. After all, they belonged to different worlds, and the distance blocked the continued development of the plot until the male protagonist went bankrupt and returned to his hometown of Los Angeles a year later.

Six years and six months after we met, when the heroine who bravely and courageously disregarded his so-called life plan sang Bon Jovi's classics downstairs to express his confession, it was a pity that the heroine was already engaged. When the female lead gave up her engagement and ran towards the male lead, I was so worried that the ending would be like the one in "In the Clouds", but after going around in circles, they finally got together.

"Getting acquainted with Jun at the beginning is like meeting old friends." Maybe it was love in the first place, but the two-part, seven-year accidental connection gave each other warm support when the other party was at a low ebb. They don't talk about love and are afraid to start. After all the ambiguity, what is romance? Romance is the destruction of friendship and the creation of love.

So, we met so early, how good is the translation of this title.

There is a poem that says "How to make me meet you at my most beautiful moment" , which is a paradox. Sometimes reminiscing about, even if I was alone, I couldn't help but be ashamed to hide my face. Thinking about how naive I was in middle school, the whole room was full of sighs when I got up to read the text, and I was always serious and serious.

Sometimes I can't help but think again: If I meet that person again now, he will definitely fall in love with me. At that time, I was ignorant, immature, inconsiderate, not cute enough to be coquettish and foolish - I wore a dirty coat, I was proud and rigid and did not understand accidents, I was too self-willed, too self-respecting, I don't understand your thoughtfulness and humility , and didn't understand his own lame mannerisms... so we just missed it.

If it was as good as today, I would not have lost you then, but if I hadn't experienced the frustration, pain, and loss you gave me, I wouldn't be as good as I am now. The kindness and obedience that pain has taught me, I will take to make another man happy.

Fortunately, the ending of the movie was good. The woman came and saw the boy dressed in the wedding, thinking that everything was over, and left with tears. The boy chased after him, smiled and kissed. Fortunately, she finally made it in time. Fortunately, they always meet at the right moment.

Some people say that there is always a time difference between people, either you are early or I am late. So seeing the big reunion of the male and female protagonists is comforting in my heart, so I turned back and started again. The road we have traveled is a must.

When I watched Gao Yuanyuan and Wu Yanzu in "Single Men and Women", someone once said to me: "If you are the right person, no matter how long it takes and how many twists and turns you have experienced, you will be together eventually. If you are not together in the end, it is Because he's not the right person."

Perhaps only by experiencing repeated misses, will we have the courage and tenacity that true love needs to know that we cannot do it, and we will also understand that in the time and space to make fun of us, it is not a step earlier or a step later. Disaster.

Only in this way will we understand the meaning and value of being trapped in the sand and sinking so many times in the undercurrent river in reality, and wanting to retreat countless times, but still unable to take that step.

Until all affection is not let down.

I hope that when you know what love is, you just meet the destined TA.

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A Lot Like Love quotes

  • Graham Martin: Oliver, this is your life. You can't wait for it to just to get you up on your feet.

  • Oliver Martin: [annoyed] Gabe the babe.