Gentleman of restraint

Camylle 2022-04-22 07:01:33

The elderly father, despite his age, still regards being a servant as his most important career. He is proud of his son.

Even when his father died, he continued to serve at the table.

Forbearance of love, the housekeeper's admirer Stevens, made several offers, but was rejected by him. There are many waves in his heart, but he bears in mind the iron law that servants must not fall in love. He was in pain, but he still refused to break the rules.

He is a representative of that old era, a gentleman of the old school. He is polite and conservative, but he is never willing to be flexible.

When the old and new eras change, between the two world wars, and in the tide of the times, how should individuals rise and fall?

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The Remains of the Day quotes

  • Miss Kenton: [about a new housemaid] You don't like having pretty girls on the staff, I've noticed.

    [teasing]

    Miss Kenton: Might it be that our Mr Stevens fears distraction? Can it be that our Mr Stevens is flesh and blood after all and doesn't trust himself?

    Stevens: [with the faintest trace of a smile] You know what I'm doing, Miss Kenton? I'm placing my thoughts elsewhere as you chatter away.

    Miss Kenton: ...then why is that guilty smile still on your face?

    Stevens: Oh it's not a guilty smile. I'm simply amused by the sheer nonsense you sometimes talk.

    Miss Kenton: It *is* a guilty smile. You can hardly bear to look at her. That's why you didn't want to take her on, she's too pretty.

    Stevens: Well, you must be right Miss Kenton, you always are.

  • Miss Kenton: I don't know what my future is. Ever since Katherine, my daughter, got married last year, my life has been empty. The years stretch before me and if only I knew how to fill them. But, I would like to be useful again.