publicity advertisement I saw on the subway passage of my single diary. At first glance, I thought it was an advertisement for a hospital to treat "infertility". But the short-sighted I still saw the familiar face from 11 years ago, isn't that the "British Gentleman" Colin? Is the woman in front of the poster the BJ--Renée?
It's just that the other middle-aged handsome guy next to him is not Hugh Grant, but a new face. Yes, this is the final "BJ's Diary of a Single" - Part 3.
There is a line of red letters on the poster: Good pregnancy is coming!
what? BJ is pregnant! Awesome my gosh.
BJ 11 years ago, 32 years old, mediocre, a little fat, and stupid. Sometimes she is smug, but most of the time she is a middle-aged and second-year-old leftover girl who eats and waits to die.
But this kind of BJ attracted the love of his boss Hugh Grant and childhood sweetheart Mark Darcy. But in the end, she still did not escape the fate of being single.
Until this year, it should be said that it was released in the UK in September 2016 and released in mainland China in January 2017. BJ not only successfully counterattacked and got rid of the order, but even had a baby.
Back then, the 32-year-old BJ had been simply pursuing a pure love and writing his single diary. After 11 years, BJ is 43 years old, still the same apartment, still the same TV job. But the difference is that BJ succeeded in losing weight, wearing a beautiful dress, highlighting the exquisite figure, and walking on the street confidently, can still attract a lot of heads.
At the age of 43, she is single and has a more exciting life, but her friends are all married and have children, so she spends more of her spare time attending friends' family gatherings, children's baptisms, etc.
So it is inevitable that she will still feel lonely, and she will go to the concert of young people who is not convinced by her old age, but she has no idea that Ed Sheeran is singing on the stage. But it is this time of random madness, BJ succeeded in putting the multi-millionaire to sleep.
Then he put his ex-boyfriend Mark Darcy to bed at a friend's child's christening. It took a few days before and after, until she was sure that she was pregnant, she couldn't tell who was the biological father of the child at all.
In fact, no matter who is the father of the child, we are already envious. One is a multimillionaire on social networking sites, and the other is an ex-boyfriend who has been on and off for 10 years. As for the naked sex scenes of the uncles and aunts on the screen, and the disgusting words of love, I don't feel any disobedience or disgust, because any age has the right to pursue love.
But when the film ends with BJ getting married, you don't feel like you're getting old too. 11 years ago, you were just a high school graduate and you were about to start your college life. At that time, watching BJ was actually limited to a girl as ordinary as BJ who longed for the appearance of her own Prince Charming.
But at that time, you actually knew nothing about love. This should be a common phenomenon for children in mainland China. In fact, according to psychology, 12-18 years old is the best age to fall in love, but this time period is the age when you are taught not to fall in love early. Even if you were going to college at the age of 18, you were told by your parents: girls should protect themselves and don't trust boys easily.
You have always adhered to this principle, until you graduated from college, but your parents began to introduce you to people. But your youthful rebellious period seems to have come a bit late. If your parents like it, you don't like it. If your parents don't agree, you will stick to the end.
In the end, everyone around you is married and has children, but you are still single. The times have almost changed, and your feelings have also experienced some, but in the end, you still become a leftover girl, and you are still old.
The conclusion of each phone call with your parents is definitely your personal problem, and the topic you talk about every time you go home is the topic you didn’t listen to the old man and you haven’t married yet.
More and more friends born in the 90s in the circle of friends also indicate that you are getting older, and many people start to call you "sister or even aunt". Really scared, in a few years, someone will start calling you: Auntie!
However, as you grow up and mature, you also gradually discover that your parents are so anxious about your life-long affairs, and even the forced marriage that has arisen in recent years, why?
In fact, your parents are insecure, you who don't usually live together. When you were in school, the topic of yours and your parents was basically learning; at the beginning of work, your topic was work; when you were getting married, naturally your topic was marriage and childbirth.
They are afraid that they will become estranged because they do not have a common language with you, and they are also afraid that you will not be able to take good care of yourself and live too hard because you have no marriage.
Thinking about it this way, I gradually understand my parents, but after all, love is my own, and my parents are just the anxious side. In this way, I also began to slowly learn how to communicate well with them.
In fact, there is another effective way to prevent parents from over-forcing marriage: you live a very good, fulfilling and happy life. Then they will slowly accept that it is acceptable to live without a married partner.
Speaking of "BJ's Single Diary 3", it is still full of British humor, but whether it is Colin, who was handsome and charming back then, he can't stand the passage of time, and his temples have gray hair. These also reveal: you are old too. The footage of the review of the first two films in the film does not make you sigh: youth is fleeting.
11 years ago, you were just as eager for a sincere love as BJ. After 11 years, even if you are still single, with the baptism of time, the mood of looking at life and relationships is naturally different, and even more pure.
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