[Film Review] I'm Thinking of Ending Things (2020) 7.5/10

Elenora 2022-04-22 07:01:41

Is it a movie about a pending breaking-up? A young woman (Buckley) contemplating about splitting from her boyfriend Jake (Plemons), whom she has been dated for six weeks (or in that ballpark), but she has already accepted an invitation to dine at his parent's countryside house for the first time (saying “yes” is far easier than “no”), but don't expect any MEET THE PARENTS goofiness in the offing, in Charlie Kaufman's I'M THINKING OF ENDING THINGS, it is a jaunt full of question marks, reality bizarrely and cumulatively morphs into un-reality (like time passes through people). Who is this young woman anyway? (whose name and occupation keep changing) and the main plot is punctuated by a byplay about a high school janitor (Boyd), what is the connection here?

I'M THINKING… inherits Kaufman's cerebral, perspective-shifting, logic-discarding (interestingly his protagonists scarcely question their own sanity in the face of unthinkable circumstances) hallmarks, his surreal conceit can be pertinently referred as “mundane”, it is not that the elements he constructs are eerily otherworldly or unsettlingly paranormal (David Lynch is the doyen in this regard), but the way how those everyday or pedestrian actions are concatenated, that defies our rational expectation and their yawning inconsistency indicates a dreamlike existence. Here, the age of Jake's parents (Thewlis and Colette, the latter is peculiarly mesmerizing in her delectable, chameleon-like affectations) inexplicably seesaws within a dinner's time; the woman cannot see the face of Jake's family dog ​​(which keeps jiggling),and find her own childhood picture hanging on the wall of Jake's parents' farmhouse; cryptical messages are uttered by a waitress (Quinn, carrying off a memorable cameo duty) of an ice cream parlor during a blizzard night. They are all telltale signs of that the only plausible explanation is that there is a metafictional wire-puller.

When the plot arrives at its third act, the janitor's tributary finally converges into the artery, a dream ballet rendition in the school hallway, the woman's tremulous admission of her “reality” in front of the janitor, she cannot remember what Jake looks like, their first encounter isn't romantic at all, that we ascertain the janitor is the aging Jake, and the woman is what he imagines as “the ideal one” who embodies all the virtues he wants for a wife, but the gaping remove between reality and fantasy is so hurtfully dispiriting, Jake, the janitor is a sad sack who isn't talent enough to make good, but a diligent highbrow fritters his life away, old, overweight and alone, forgotten by the world.

If the film genuinely suggests Kaufman's solicitude respecting the misery of intellectuals in our shallow society, where sapiosexuals are hard to find, spiritual elation is obliterated by materialistic yearning, the testimonial (“the woman behind a successful man” trope is a tad passé) and the switch of our focus point from the woman to Jake unwisely expose Kaufman's own navel-gazing and regressive self-pity, Nobel Prize is everyman's ultimate holy grail? Even in his saddo's fantasy, Kaufman's own standing is over the hoi polloi.

Elsewhere, on the strength of two cracking leading performances - Buckley is very adept in registering subtle emotions and acquits herself beautifully through the woman's perplexing revelations, whereas Plemons is disarming and aw-shucks enough to underline Jake's all-knowing resignation, Kaufman's eclectic cultural references (which are not in Reid's novel) is another boon for sophisticated audience to savor (functioning as fodder to fill the pair's car-driving intervals), although giving a verbatim outpouring of Pauline Kael's scathing review of A WOMAN UNDER THE INFLUENCE may stretch too far , this reviewer would rather hear Kaufman's own assessment of Cassavetes' chef d'oeuvre, from which I'M THINKING… is tonally, aesthetically and structurally disparate,but not so much in its perceptive but dispiriting dissection of life's bleakness and futility.

referential entries: Kaufman's SYNECDOCHE, NEW YORK (2008, 7.0/10), ANOMALISA (2015, 7.8/10); Michel Gondry's ETERNAL SUNSHINE OF THE SPOTLESS MIND (2004, 8.2/10).

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Extended Reading
  • Allen 2022-03-26 09:01:09

    Kaufman does not represent time, memory and aging per se, but tells a story about time, memory and aging that is fascinating enough in an age where the tradition of storytelling has been lost.

  • Enid 2022-03-26 09:01:09

    Stream of consciousness movies. There are many real and virtual characters who have lived their entire lives in my head. PS Whenever I think the movie is interesting, the long and free dialogue pulls me back to the boring zone. On the degree of unfriendliness to the audience, Kaufman and Nolan have a good fight...

I'm Thinking of Ending Things quotes

  • Young Woman: [about his onset dementia] I'm sorry that y-you're...

    Father: That's okay. Truth is, I'm looking forward to when it gets very bad and I don't have to remember that I can't remember!

  • Young Woman: Coming home is terrible whether the dogs lick your face or not; whether you have a wife or just a wife-shaped loneliness waiting for you. Coming home is terribly lonely, so that you think of the oppressive barometric pressure back where you have just come from with fondness, because everything's worse once you're home. You think of the vermin clinging to the grass stalks, long hours on the road, roadside assistance and ice creams, and the peculiar shapes of certain clouds and silences with longing because you did not want to return. Coming home is just awful. And the home-style silences and clouds contribute to nothing but the general malaise. Clouds, such as they are, are in fact suspect, and made from a different material than those you left behind. You yourself were cut from a different cloudy cloth, returned, remaindered, ill-met by moonlight, unhappy to be back, slack in all the wrong spots, seamy suit of clothes dishrag-ratty, worn. You return home moon-landed, foreign; the Earth's gravitational pull an effort now redoubled, dragging your shoelaces loose and your shoulders etching deeper the stanza of worry on your forehead. You return home deepened, a parched well linked to tomorrow by a frail strand of... Anyway... You sigh into the onslaught of identical days. One might as well, at a time... Well... Anyway... You're back. The sun goes up and down like a tired whore, the weather immobile like a broken limb while you just keep getting older. Nothing moves but the shifting tides of salt in your body. Your vision blears. You carry your weather with you, the big blue whale, a skeletal darkness. You come back with X-ray vision. Your eyes have become a hunger. You come home with your mutant gifts to a house of bone. Everything you see now, all of it: bone.