Before watching the movie "Why Home", I only knew that it was a child who sued his parents for not giving birth to him. After I went to the studio and saw that the production country was "Lebanon, France, and the United States", I lost interest because I didn't want to. Watch movies from certain regions. The last time I watched "The Tuner", I felt very bad. I didn't like movies with almost all bad guys. I kept seeing the darkness of human beings, which made people very disgusting. There is no need to use an extreme or even abnormal way to pursue such a beautiful pursuit of loving music, so you will continue to encounter ugly things that are difficult to control.
Although I regretted watching the movie without knowing anything about myself, the result was unexpected and I thought it was well done and worth watching. But this movie is not "good-looking", because it is full of pain and sadness from beginning to end, and there is only a little hope at the end, which is the only smile of the little boy at the end of the play. The photographer took a picture of the boy and made him smile: "This is for an ID card, not a death certificate." The little boy is finally no longer a refugee, but has his own ID card. But that smile was just the boy's hope, not something that many people could see. If someone wants to watch a movie for entertainment, they don't need to go to the theater.
The mother cried in court that she had worked like a slave all her life, that no one had lived her life and that no one had the right to judge her. She had 8 children when she was pregnant, and died tragically because she sold an 11-year-old daughter to someone else as a wife because she couldn't eat enough. Her husband said that people say that you can stand up when you have children, but his waist has been crushed. Their family was so poor that they didn't even have a bed, and their eight children were crammed together, but their husband and wife were still looking for fun on the other side of the curtain in order to satisfy their sexual desires, and they couldn't get an abortion.
Ignorance is a sin. I felt this strongly when I heard the woman say that Allah made her pregnant as compensation. She did not know the origin of her misery, her life as a slave. The husband of her 11-year-old daughter told the court that he really didn't know that getting married to such a young child would be dangerous and would kill her. The girls around him were like that. His mother-in-law got married when he was 11. Maybe they are not bad people, and they also sent their children to the hospital, but they were rejected by the hospital because they did not have an ID card because of their refugee status, and the result was only a tragic death. Ignorance itself is not sin, but ignorance makes people sin, and what leads to sin is sin itself.
People say that there is no empathy in this world, no one is qualified to judge others. But that's not your reason for doing those things, it's not your excuse. At least your kids can judge you. When they gave their 11-year-old daughter to someone and died tragically during pregnancy, the boy stabbed the person and went to prison. When she went to visit, she said, when you lose one thing, Allah will give you another as compensation. The boy asks her what God has given you and she says she is pregnant and the boy will have a brother or sister. The boy stood up in shock and indignant, "I don't want to see you again, you bastard." He was fully qualified to judge her. He said in court that the child would only be born like him, what memories would there be, violence and abuse, being trampled on like a carpet. In fact, it is not a carpet, but a dirty and miserable life that is inferior to mud, without dignity and happiness.
If it takes empathy to understand each other, can we understand each other only when we all experience ugly, sinful and sad things in this world? Do you really need that to love each other? There is no empathy in this world, and that statement is, in some ways, shit too. I once said that some things, even if they can be understood by others, cannot be understood. Even now I will not deny this, but I feel that a real high-level understanding does not need to really experience those things. Those who understand will naturally understand, even if they cannot deeply understand, they will have empathy, compassion, sympathy and love for others, rather than superiority and schadenfreude indifference.
Even if no one can judge others, everyone has the right to judge themselves. Can you do it again? Don't use yourself and not fully understand yourself as an excuse. Just ask yourself right now, have you ever lived up to yourself, pampered yourself, always complained about others, and used your unpleasant experience as an excuse to be irresponsible to yourself? Self-harm and hurting others? In fact, many people are unable to transcend their personal experience, use the so-called "family of origin" and "childhood shadows" or other shadows to make excuses for themselves, and keep sinking. In fact, no one is responsible for you, only to constantly hurt yourself, and implicate those who care about you, or unconsciously inflict that kind of harm on others, even those you love.
I took a look at the movie's awards, and all 11 movie awards were nominated. Actually it deserves an award. No sensationalism, no political correctness, just telling the truth. Female directors have more delicate feelings and can feel the real pain in the hearts of women and children. What surprised me was that the actor who played the boy was discovered by the director in the refugee camp. Because of the real life experience, it can be so touching. Later, the whole family was assisted, and with an ID card, he was able to go to school for education. At the end of the movie, the woman he met on his wandering journey also accidentally met his sold child, and the boy also smiled, giving people comfort, but this is just an example, and this faint bright spot is not the hope of most people . The sad thing is that after watching this movie, some people have a sense of superiority and gratitude for their happy life, let's not talk about it.
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