The heroine Alice met her boyfriend Josh when she was in college. She went from living with her parents’ house to living with her roommate in college and finally graduated and lived with her boyfriend. She has never tried the taste of living alone, which gave her the idea of To discover the bizarre idea of being separated from her boyfriend for the time being, no matter how much her boyfriend stays, she finally leaves. Later, she met her friend Jordan and was led to plunge into the "Man River"; in the end, she was in the one-night stand of the bartender. I understand that most of the men in this society are men who want to take advantage of women but don’t want any involvement or responsibilities. She understands the value of her boyfriend’s sincere feelings for her, but when she wants to return to her boyfriend, Josh said He already had a new girlfriend, and later he soon got engaged with his girlfriend. All this seems to be revenge on Alice, and Alice has always regretted the pain for this, and the subsequent loves also ended in failure. Let her understand that true love is hard to find; she is suffering, lonely, self-blaming, searching, but forgetting to find the "true self".
On the other hand, Alice’s sister is a doctor. She loves her job. Not only does she have the money to support herself, she also plans to have a child to raise herself, because she knows she doesn’t need a man, and she knows men very well and doesn’t have any expectations of finding true love. , But I met true love after pregnancy. Fortunately, the other party can finally accept this child who does not belong to her, and is willing to raise it with her. It can be said that Alice’s sister is lucky, but her luck is based on Her self-reliance.
Pig friend and dog friend Jordan, is a big fat woman who drunk in a bar every night and can't even remember which man she slept with. You can despise her, but she doesn't even remember which man she slept with. She doesn't care, she just treats men as playmates, and doesn't want to get anything from the relationship between men and women (she is actually a super rich second generation), so she is happy and worry-free.
Lucy, who spent all day rubbing free WIFI in the bar to find someone on dating sites, finally got married after seeing many scumbags. She has fought and fought again and again, although the heartthrob bartender seduce her in every possible way, but She knew exactly what she wanted, so she did not board the bartender’s "broken ship" with great self-control, and finally met a man who was willing to marry herself when she was about to give up. She was too obsessed with getting married. Something happened, but fortunately she was lucky. And the bartender finally found out that he loved Lucy, and he finally understood how superficial and naive his previous style of picking up girls was.
In the end, Jordan invited Josh without telling Alice at Alice’s birthday party. The rich black ex-boyfriend and the bartender embarrassed Alice and quarreled with Jordan. Jordan’s words seemed to make people feel at first glance. I don’t understand. In fact, it means to scold Alice for taking those men too seriously. In fact, they don’t take Alice seriously. Alice’s mind is looking for love for men all day, but she is lost. Ego, just because she really has no one to live, she can’t survive without a man, friend, or older sister around her. In fact, she’s the first time she has been spoiled in real life. She can’t Accept the lonely days of being empty and unaccompanied, because she is not strong enough, not independent enough, has fantasies about men, and does not know what she wants... So in the end Alice lived an independent life and gave up I got rid of a man, quit Jordan, started reading, started to understand my own heart, and finally found myself. At this time, it might be possible to understand that self-searching is a painful experience. This result may not be as beautiful and simple as she originally imagined, and the ending was not what she expected, but in the end she achieved the goal explained at the beginning, which is also very Satire.
I said that Alice never knew what she wanted because she wanted to separate when she was living with her boyfriend in the first place. In fact, it was because she was not sure about her boyfriend. She didn’t know if this was her life partner, doubting. Was it like this in her life, so she had the idea of changing her life; later she met the bartender, and she fell into it immediately, because the bartender was so handsome, she worked well in bed, and she knew what women wanted to hear. But she later found out that the bartender was not the kind of man who wanted to have a long-term relationship. The man who wanted to get married left him, and then she met a black man at the meeting. The other party also understood the greed of women very well. Future, very rich, immediately drew Alice’s attention, no matter if the other party already has children, as long as the other party does not have a wife, she is willing to deal with him, and regardless of whether the other party likes to talk to herself about previous wives, and hides it everywhere. She didn’t communicate smoothly, and she ignored these problems, and ended up failing; just like that, she was not outstanding in all aspects of her heartfelt desire to get married. The boyfriend was not what she wanted, and the outstanding appearance can make a woman feel romantic. The bartender who is sweet but does not want to get married is not what she wants. She is rich and has a stable career, but the older black boyfriend who can't open her heart with her is not what she wants, and she doesn't know what she wants. In fact, it's time to dig out the "real me".
The reason for Alice’s pain is as pointed out by Jordan. She takes men too seriously. Her sister has also said that she can focus on her career. On the contrary, Alice ridiculed her sister for having nothing but work. The man came, patted his butt and left, leaving nothing but pain and troubles in her heart. The things that cannot be grasped are not worth putting too much effort on, running one’s own business and life well, maybe love Will come unexpectedly.
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