After watching "The Bridge of the Last Dream": I love you, but I can't choose you

Rico 2022-04-23 07:02:38

A woman enters middle age, her marriage is as smooth as water, without waves, life is surrounded by trivial matters, her children are growing up, and there is little common language. The expectations of the girlhood are far from the monotonous reality. At this time, a free, free and well-informed western cowboy broke into her life. His appearance was like a rain and dew on the desolate and dry land, bringing freshness and light to her dead life. However, she is a wife and a mother, and her identity makes this long overdue love sinful and dark. There is no right or wrong in love itself, and the wrong thing in this love is meeting the right person at the wrong time. Each of us lives in our own past. People spend a minute to know someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, and finally a lifetime to forget someone, and this is so-called love. Robert came to Love Holland on the first day after Francesca's husband and child went on a business trip to shoot the Roseman Bridge. The two talked while Francesca was guiding the romantic and artistic man from a foreign land. Very happy, chatting very speculatively, the seeds of love quickly took root and sprout in my heart, dry wood and fire, affection and lingering sorrow, Francisco rekindled his desire for love after many years, was nourished by love, and enjoyed the beauty of love. The relationship between Robert and Francisco is not only the satisfaction of physical sexual desire, but also the mutual understanding of spiritual soul. When talking about his dream, 4 Ranciska said to him that although the life in the town is calm and peaceful, the people are simple, friendly, and honest, and the daily work is to do farm work, housework and all kinds of trivial things. Life was stable, but it wasn't my teenage fantasy. Old dreams are beautiful, and although they haven't come true, I'm glad they haunted my heart. The old dreams were good dreams. They, didn't work out, but I am glad I had them. This is Robert's consolation for Francesca. Mr. Yang Jiang said: "We were so eager for the waves of destiny, but in the end we discovered that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually the calmness and calmness of the heart." When we are young, we may be full of ambition and have infinite visions and expectations for the future, but reality often runs counter to our ideals, and the fireworks in our hearts will gradually diminish until extinguished, and finally we will compromise with reality and end our life. The most tearful thing in the whole film is that at the end of the film, when the camera turns, Francesco and her husband Richard are in their twilight years, their hair is gray, and Richard is dying and is about to reach the end of his life. Franny accompanied him, taking care of him carefully, gently holding his head with one hand, and feeding him medicine with a glass of water with the other. Although Richard is not the love of Franny's life, Franny still chooses to accompany him for the rest of his life, supporting each other and growing old hand in hand. Family chores continue to fill his life, and the fiery love is deeply buried in his heart. In our life, the one who accompanies you to the end does not necessarily have to be the person you love the most. Franny walked to the edge of the bed and lay down slowly, hugged Richard with one hand, and buried his head in Richard's chest. The years were peaceful and infinite. Richard said: "Franny, I want to tell you, I know you have your own dreams, I'm sorry I can't let you accomplish them, I love you so much". Although there is no love between the two, they have gone through ups and downs together for many years and have become accustomed to each other, far more than love.

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  • Francesca: Robert, please. You don't understand, no-one does. When a woman makes the choice to marry, to have children; in one way her life begins but in another way it stops. You build a life of details. You become a mother, a wife and you stop and stay steady so that your children can move. And when they leave they take your life of details with them. And then you're expected move again only you don't remember what moves you because no-one has asked in so long. Not even yourself. You never in your life think that love like this can happen to you.

    Robert Kincaid: But now that you have it...

    Francesca: I want to keep it forever. I want to love you the way I do now the rest of my life. Don't you understand... we'll lose it if we leave. I can't make an entire life disappear to start a new one. All I can do is try to hold onto to both. Help me. Help me not lose loving you.

  • Robert: The old dreams were good dreams; they didn't work out, but glad I had them.