Love is separated by mountains and seas, mountains and seas are not flat

Jess 2022-04-22 07:01:33

The patterns are all the same. The initial guesses, the ambiguousness after the exchange of hearts, the sweetness of the honeymoon period, and the despair of the future life. Presumably every mother has had the idea of ​​running away, most of which are fleeting and fleeting. The person who takes responsibility, who doesn't want to have a moment of lightness, such as returning to the beautiful, chased and willful girlhood?

Most of the housewives must not be able to live the life that Girls' Generation envisioned. so what? The chances of realizing the dream are too small. You need at least a clear vision of the future, a precocious mind, a strategic IQ, a mind to seize the moment, and most importantly, meet that person. But the husbands are also innocent. "I was like this when you chose me! And you did it voluntarily." You will think so. Marriage is a bet, and the rule at the poker table is to give in. It's better to shake his head handsomely and say something to himself: "This is the case in this life, my mother admits it."

I wonder if the husbands who have watched this film will feel a chill in their hearts: My usually diligent, hard-working, virtuous and gentle wife, will my heart also be hopeless?

I often feel that it is not the incompatibility of each other's personalities that ruins love, but the trivial, day-to-day life that looks to the end at a glance. Sometimes I am fortunate that the opportunity that is not available makes each other so poignant. Those who had already formed cocoons in their hearts were still very touched when they saw the scene of saying goodbye in the rain, as if they were electrocuted.

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  • Francesca: Robert, please. You don't understand, no-one does. When a woman makes the choice to marry, to have children; in one way her life begins but in another way it stops. You build a life of details. You become a mother, a wife and you stop and stay steady so that your children can move. And when they leave they take your life of details with them. And then you're expected move again only you don't remember what moves you because no-one has asked in so long. Not even yourself. You never in your life think that love like this can happen to you.

    Robert Kincaid: But now that you have it...

    Francesca: I want to keep it forever. I want to love you the way I do now the rest of my life. Don't you understand... we'll lose it if we leave. I can't make an entire life disappear to start a new one. All I can do is try to hold onto to both. Help me. Help me not lose loving you.

  • Robert: The old dreams were good dreams; they didn't work out, but glad I had them.