As I've gotten older, and while I still hate cheating, I kind of understand those people.
When a person is middle-aged, not to mention the various situations of unhappy marriage, nor how breathtaking the external material desires are, it is not within the scope of discussion purely for the purpose of venting desires, even if everything goes well, the dull feelings polished by life are difficult to Resist the throbbing of first encounters. Novelty because of unfamiliarity, beauty because of distance, trivial forgot because of accident, cherished because of shortness, strong because of hopelessness... I can criticize from the moral high ground, but I can't say definitively: When I am also stuck in boring , in the trivial life, boredom but can't get rid of; when the dream becomes more and more out of reach but does not completely die, there is a dull pain in my heart; when family members do not understand and do not want to understand their preferences, the closer they get, the lonelier they become. If I suddenly meet a pleasant person, I can be indifferent and not emotional...
But how can I deny everything before because of this sudden throbbing?
Love has changed from a heart pounding like a deer to a family relationship with the left hand holding the right hand. Isn't its initial appearance a certain love that makes oneself willing to hold the hand of a child and try to grow old with it? Isn't the thing that can make one ignore the nature of fear of change, stay away from the homeland, and move forward bravely, can it be called a dream? Isn't the person who took him to settle down thousands of miles away, also the first love?
How can he selectively lose his memory because his eyes are blurred by time and his personality has been polished by life? How can the later encounter be regarded as the only certain love in this life?
Of course, feelings change, and so do people. I totally disapprove of the two of them dragging themselves together after the relationship broke down to maintain the surface integrity. You must know that quarrels and abuse are far more hurtful than separation, and it is not only a person's life that is ruined by appearance. The two people should communicate as much as possible about family matters. If they really don't get along, they should get together and break up, and there should be no betrayal. Even if you don't want to look back on the road you've traveled together, there's no need to clear it up. Whether you admit it or not, you have indeed shared love and warmth intimately.
PS, because the actor's performance is really good, even if I reject extramarital affairs so much, the second half is also moved. Love is really hard to extricate and resist, especially in the name of true love, but if Francesca can control a little and be less active, then this seemingly eternal love is just a brief temptation. Life is so long, the world is so big, and there are so many people, it's not surprising that I am tempted once in a while, and then they will naturally dissipate in the long river of time, and even after a few years, you will completely forget what you had.
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