But I like In the Mood for Love the most, because it is pure love, no physical infidelity, although there is no perfect combination of spirit and desire, but the kind that cannot be obtained is precisely the most beautiful!
I don't think the heroine's derailment should be praised, at least in China. After all, the heroine's family is very happy, but it's just plain! There is not so much passion after marriage. The spark collision of the two people in love at the beginning will naturally tend to be dull and boring after marriage. Getting married is more of a responsibility, a responsibility and care for the family, the husband, and the children. The love for each other will be transformed into family love in the end! Unless it is a family that is suffering from bad life, has been bullied, and really can't live, leaving is the best choice, otherwise any reason is an excuse!
If the heroine's husband doesn't love her, or betrays her, making her lonely and unbearable, it's understandable for her to cheat. But in the film, her husband loves her very much. He actually always knew about his wife's derailment, but he never exposed it. He didn't tell the heroine until before his death, saying that he could not bring her the dream of a girlhood, but He still loves her. What a great, tolerant, caring man he is!
The hero and heroine in the film really love each other, but their love is doomed to be a mistake and a tragedy! It would be even more complimented if they were just pure platonic love without sex! But they have reached the unity of spirit and desire, so in my opinion, there is still something in the heart. After all, it's only four days before you can sleep with another person, and it's good to say it's true love, and it's bad to say it's a one-night stand. The main thing is that the heroine wears an oversized green hat to her husband by doing this, and it is difficult for her husband to look up and be a man. Fortunately, her husband is a man with a strong tolerance. He doesn't care about gossip and still silently gives his wife the greatest love! I don't think the heroine's husband is a man with true love and a big heart.
When the heroine came to the United States from Italy with her husband who was a soldier, why didn't she have true love in her heart? It's just that so many years have passed, and the passion of Girls' Generation is completely gone, and there is only a dull, boring, day-to-day life. In fact, real life is like this. After marriage, it will tend to be dull. Where can there be so many passionate collisions! What's more, if the heroine goes with the hero, their days together will pass over time, and life will become very dull, just like she is in the farm now. There is no guarantee that she will not meet a man like the hero in the future. If she and this new man collide with each other again, and they also admire each other and have absolute true love, will she abandon the current hero again? What about eloping with a new man?
In fact, I think that what you can't get is always the best. Their short-term contact for four days, the perfect combination of spirit and desire, and then worrying about each other, that kind of detachment and ultimately unable to be together is the most perfect ending. People live in the world not only to pursue their own happiness and desires, but also to have certain conduct. If she really eloped with the male protagonist, as she said, her husband has never done anything bad in his life and should not be punished like that. If she did it so hard, how much damage it would bring to her previous family, she I stay away from this place of right and wrong, and I can't hear those gossips, but my husband is always suffering from inner torment and the world's gossip. Such a big green hat is a great shame for any man!
After the film was broadcast, it caused a large-scale divorce boom in the world. It is said that it is a commemoration of imitating the heroine, which is really nonsense. The connotation of the film is not to encourage people to boldly cheat, divorce, etc. for their own happiness. What I want to express is not to praise the deviant love, but to express the sincere feelings between people and the sense of family responsibility! Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness and freedom, but on the premise of not harming others or destroying the happiness of others. Just imagine how much damage it will bring to her family after the heroine and the heroine run away together. The mother's love for the children has been lost since then, even though they are no longer small. But after you go out, what do you think when people laugh at you and say that your mother eloped with them? This is absolutely devastating for the child. In addition, for my husband, how can such a big green hat raise his head and be a man? It's scary to think about it! The pursuit of happiness is certainly correct, but it cannot be based on harming the happiness and interests of others. Unless it is settled peacefully with the male protagonist, peacefully breaking up, agreeing to divorce, and trying to minimize the damage, it is more rational to do so.
People are people in society, which determines that we need to abide by many rules and conduct. Don't destroy the happiness of others for your own happiness. So many times you have to think twice.
What touched me the most in the film was that one day after spending four days together, the hero and heroine met in the rain, the hero silently looked at the heroine in the rain, and the heroine was waiting for the hero to say a word, "Take me away". But the hero just looked at her silently, and the heroine was struggling in her heart, and almost got out of the car and followed him. Too bad we didn't get to see that scene! Although the male and female protagonists in the film are extramarital affairs, they are not praised, but as far as the film is concerned, they are really in love with each other, and they will be together forever after they die. This ending is indeed very touching and poignant!
On the other hand, after reading the film review in reality, many people follow the example, commemorate, and boldly cheat for their own pleasure, and divorce! It's really absurd, I'd say the people who cheated on it are just idiots and didn't understand the film at all. And in reality, how can it be so easy to find someone so heart-warming and worthy of everything? Most people get divorced because they can't stand the dullness, boredom, personality incompatibility, or financially unsustainable, unsatisfactory sex life, etc. after marriage. Often after divorce, remarrying and remarrying are actually mostly unsatisfactory and not as beautiful as they originally imagined. The combination of two people has to overcome many difficulties, accommodate each other, and understand each other. Divorce is definitely not a wise move unless you have to! Moreover, once the spouse finds out about the cheating after marriage, the consequences will be disastrous. Not every man can be as open-minded and broad as the heroine's husband in the film! Therefore, those men and women who intend to cheat, must think twice before making any move in pursuit of happiness, otherwise they will all be destroyed!
Do you recommend friends who like to watch the last dreams of covered bridges to watch "In the Mood for Love", "Out of Africa", "British Patient", "Burning Years" and "Casablanca".
Among these films, I like In the Mood for Love the most. In addition, Out of Africa is a super classic . When I was watching the bridge bridge's last dream, I cried, I wasn't moved by the story of the bridge bridge's last dream, I suddenly thought of some bridges out of Africa, it was so poignant. These are definitely masterpieces, and the classic level is better than the last dream of the covered bridge. Especially Wong Kar-wai's In the Mood for Love, every time I watch it, my mood is surging. In the Mood for Love is the most classic Chinese love movie I've ever seen. It's much more classic than the Titanic!
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