Incredible beauty lies in instant light?

Theresa 2022-04-21 09:02:34

Movies can always bring people into a story and a situation, and when they start to feel flat, they will gradually become familiar with friends who they meet every day.
How long will you be moved by a movie?

Just like those four days of life. The initial feeling was equally dull. He asked for directions, she kindly led her, and chatted casually on the road, but a small bunch of "poisonous" flowers brought them closer together. At the time, it reduced too many temptations to each other and quickly opened a dream world beyond the normal love mode. When feelings have reached a critical point, just a little hint of an action can break the established constraints and reach another state. So they indulge in feeling the same as each other and indulging in a speed of development that seems incredible to them.
As a virtuous wife and mother, living in a small town where every smile and smile may be criticized by acquaintances, the appearance of the photographer just fulfilled her desire to know the outside world, which coincided with her earliest dream. From the initial restraint, to being unable to extricate oneself, to the failure of pretending to be free and easy because I care too much and questioning, to the last tears, we say "love" and a "relationship" recognized by morality (such as "husband") the name), are different, but who can judge that the "love" you identified in one second will not lose its color in the next second?
Talking about a husband who made her feel "clean" was just a day ago, wasn't it? She also has love for her husband, but not enough. Maybe when they met when they were young, they smiled sweetly for the sake of mutual understanding. Maybe when they first lived in the town, they felt that life was flat and peaceful... However, maybe, she was a little unwilling after all.
And what is enough?
The photographer's sincerity, the tone of earnestly saying "This kind of love, only once in a lifetime" and watching her in the rain with a wry smile and letting the rain invade are really touching, but I didn't cry anymore, it made me cry It should be something that allows me to see the shadow of reality. Maybe this kind of story is basically true, and the promise of waiting for four days for half my life is poignant enough, but it seems that I can't see it in today's life and can't believe it anymore. Now, let’s change the ending at will, if the photographer quickly develops a new relationship with a young woman who is also dreaming in a distant place in a foreign land, or if he has been wandering for a long time, he has gained a long-known relationship when he is lost and depressed. A certain wife's favor and support and was moved by it. Therefore, in the first one or two months, I still wrote letters, and finally I gradually lost contact with her former self, and even regarded these four days as an impulsive or ordinary thing? And if, if she lost any news of him or even heard about his new life, would she look back on those four days with a mixed feeling and try to slowly forget it or would rather pretend it never happened? ? This kind of story is not beautiful, but modern people seem to be more and more impatient and the stories around them are becoming more and more fast. It really makes people lose confidence in the so-called life-long love.
Four days, after all, four days. After all, it's too late to look at each other, too late to lose so many topics, and too late to expose too many shortcomings, and too late to touch a larger world that is more than just the two of them. This may be purer love, or because it has not been tested by more people, it is just a short-lived encounter in a dream.

Think of some details. She changed her hairstyle after being with him, and seemed to be the charming little girl with dreams again. She definitely got the attention she wanted from him. Her gestures will become beautiful and meaningful. She said that this is her who has never appeared before, and maybe she will like herself like this in four days, but... if she really leaves the farm, will she miss the peaceful life and will she feel the journey and toil?

And children. It seems that "City of Glass" plagiarized the plot very seriously, but "City of Glass" also promoted the love between the two children, as if the love of the elders was continued, which is a little more romantic. . The children in "Long Dreams of the Covered Bridge" went from not understanding to accepting to reflecting on their own lives. Some people feel that some of the children and their mothers do not understand each other's ideas in several diaries. The moment I sprinkled it under the bridge, I still felt a little wet in the corners of my eyes. Well, no matter how cruel the reality is, at least in the movie, let the moment become eternal.
It's like having a beautiful but short-lived dream, let those who can have it cherish it for a long time.

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The Bridges of Madison County quotes

  • Francesca: Robert, please. You don't understand, no-one does. When a woman makes the choice to marry, to have children; in one way her life begins but in another way it stops. You build a life of details. You become a mother, a wife and you stop and stay steady so that your children can move. And when they leave they take your life of details with them. And then you're expected move again only you don't remember what moves you because no-one has asked in so long. Not even yourself. You never in your life think that love like this can happen to you.

    Robert Kincaid: But now that you have it...

    Francesca: I want to keep it forever. I want to love you the way I do now the rest of my life. Don't you understand... we'll lose it if we leave. I can't make an entire life disappear to start a new one. All I can do is try to hold onto to both. Help me. Help me not lose loving you.

  • Robert: The old dreams were good dreams; they didn't work out, but glad I had them.