"I used to dream, it's all beautiful dreams, although it didn't come true, but I'm glad I had it." I also dreamed that I deliberately "ran into" someone I liked at the seaside, made an appointment to take a boat to shoot the sunset, sat next to me smiling but reserved Instead of looking at his sparkling eyes and dense eyelashes, he pretended to look at the sunset seriously, and deliberately said: The blue sky and sea are so beautiful, I want to adjust the photo to Klein blue, Do you think it looks good?
But the kind of loss that throbbed and knew that parting was coming was intertwined, like a bloody red sun gushing out from under the dark blue curtain... but it was destined to be swallowed by the boundless blue. I like the sentence "My love for you is as turbulent as the sea, but it can only drown in the bottom of my heart, that is, it is as quiet as the sea." The throbbing without development is still pure. The first good memories are stained with stains, I don't believe in any love, I don't believe in longevity, I don't believe that someone can love you unconditionally, and even I can't fully reconcile with myself, so it's better to keep the throbbing fresh for a while.
I think that meeting the wrong person at the wrong time can never have a future, so there is no need to create a bond with the ta who met by chance, secretly taste this wonderful throbbing, and let it be estranged quietly until the goodwill disappears naturally . It is like killing the buds of love when they are about to bloom, and making beautiful specimens that can be viewed from time to time and will never expire.
"You don't want to plant a flower / You say / I don't want to see it / A little fall / Yes / To avoid the end / You avoid the beginning of everything". It sounds very "abandoned food because of choking". But in fact, many people are beautiful from a distance, and they can create romantic fantasies, but they will be very shattered when they get along. For example, you like to eat peaches, but they are so expensive that you have been reluctant to buy them, but the pink and tender look is really tempting. , but found that there is almost no sweetness or even a little sour, but you have to buy it all and have to eat it. As a result, you have an upset stomach after eating it. Isn't it asking for it? Reality is always disillusioned, so it is better to wait and see from a distance, at least it still retains the beauty of fantasy.
In the complex social life, in the face of changing people's hearts, it is really too risky to pay with sincerity. I don't think I have the cost of trial and error, and the opportunity for willfulness.
In addition, love is something that most people will never encounter in their entire lives. It is a small probability event, so why should you expect so much? So you don’t have to take chances. Anyone, for example, you can wear what you want, and you can wear suspenders and hot pants how you like. You don’t have to consider whether you are cute and likable, and you can dress freely. If you want to listen to music, conversation, drama, you can go by yourself, you don’t have to. Wait for one before he can go; on birthdays, you don't have to have a boyfriend to send flowers to have flowers, so give yourself a bunch of champagne roses to congratulate the 21-year-old with a full sense of ceremony.
"I personally think that loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." The truth is, with the idea of "I'd rather be single for a lifetime if I don't find the love I want", I gradually feel liberated and free. Love is not a necessity in life, it's just the icing on the cake.
I've seen "The Lost Corner", the triangle △ can't walk by itself, I've been looking for a "circle" that can hold her, and I met him again and again, but they all ended up breaking up for unchangeable reasons. They don't always get along. Because of this, she has fallen, annoyed, and even tried to change into what the other half wanted to cater to her other half, but she lost herself.
Until she met a circle, that circle refused her invitation to accompany him, because he himself did not lack any corner, he could go wherever he wanted. This corner realized that when she became a perfect circle, she didn't need to look for the so-called other half of life. In the end, she worked hard to become a circle herself, and no longer needed to touch the world through the "other half", because she herself You can walk independently and go wherever you want.
Later, she, who was already Yuan, met another Yuan during her travels, and they walked happily together.
Before you meet another circle, first you have to be a circle, and becoming a circle is the most difficult thing. It is your own practice, and if you are already a circle, then it seems that you will not meet another circle or not. I'm not so anxious anymore, because I already have the confidence to live a good life.
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